What is Occupational Therapy for Kids?
OT and school-based occupational therapy help students with disabilities develop the skills they need to participate in daily activities at home and school.
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What is an Inclusion Classroom? How to Tell if your Child’s Classroom is Inclusive.
Inside: How do you know if your child’s inclusion classroom is truly an inclusive environment? Let’s break it down so you know what to look for.
Dolch Sight Words: Free PDF Lists and Worksheets
Inside: Learn what Dolch sight words are and if they are still important. Also, get our free PDFs and worksheets for Dolch sight word lists….
What is Task Paralysis? And How to Save Yourself!
Task paralysis is the inability to start or complete tasks, affecting productivity and causing stress. It can be caused by various factors, not just ADHD.
4 Functions of Behavior and your FBA/Behavior Plan
If parents (and teachers!) have a better understanding of the four functions of behavior, the history behind the philosophy, and the many flaws, you can be a better advocate for a child exhibiting behaviors.
What is ADHD Overwhelm and How do you Overcome It?
ADHD overwhelm can be a daily struggle for those affected. Learn about coping strategies, self-care techniques, and seeking support to manage symptoms.
115 Morning Meeting Questions and Ideas for All Ages
From motivational quotes and positive news stories to fun games and brain teasers, we’ve got you covered. Start your day on the right foot with our helpful suggestions.
Slime Recipe: How to Make Slime with Glue
Easy DIY Slime Recipe: How to Make Slime with Glue, this step by step slime recipe and instructions will have your kids having gooey fun in just a few minutes!
15 Cool Easter Basket Ideas for Older Kids
Teens can be hard to buy for, especially at holidays geared for little kids. Here are some Easter Basket Ideas for Older Kids, including egg hunts for older kids.
7 Healthy Eating Habits for Kids
Encouraging healthy eating habits in kids can be challenging, but it’s essential to promote their overall health and well-being.
How to Write an IEP
How to Write an IEP for Special Education, step by step.
How to Write Meaningful and Measurable IEP Goals
Inside: Learn how to write effective IEP goals with this step-by-step guide. Discover the formula for writing measurable goals and objectives tailored to your student’s…
19 Work Completion IEP Goals and Examples
Inside: Discover how setting Work Completion IEP goals can help students with disabilities improve their academic performance and achieve success in school and beyond. Includes…
How to Make a Child Gain Weight (and Add 500 Calories a Day!)
Discover effective ways to help your child gain weight quickly and healthily. From nutrient-dense foods to exercise tips, learn how to support their growth.
30 Task Initiation IEP Goals and Strategies (Task Avoidance)
Inside: Task Avoidance Behavior (lack of task initiation skills) is often associated with Autism and ADHD. Here are some IEP goals and strategies to assist…
What is Shame Spiraling? And How to Stop the Pattern.
Shame spiraling is a distressing experience that can lead to self-criticism and negative self-talk. Learn how to recognize and break the cycle here.
IEP Goals not Met? Proving IEP Goals Were not Developed or Made with Fidelity.
Inside: Learn how to understand and troubleshoot an IEP if the child is repeatedly not meeting IEP goals. And, Proving IEP Goals Were not Developed…
After School Restraint Collapse and How To Get your IEP Team on Board.
The After School Meltdown, we’ve all seen it. Here’s what to know about after school restraint collapse, and getting your IEP team on board to support your child.
What is Time Blindness? (and how to manage it!)
Time Blindness is a phenomenon associated with ADHD, but it is not exclusive to ADHD. Read what it is and how to manage it if you have time blindness.
50 Essential Life Skills for Teens
Use this list of teen life skills to see where your child is, and what they need to work on before going on to college or living independently.
Can You Have an IEP and a 504?
Learn what an IEP provides and what a 504 provides, and why it’s not a case of “more is better. Your child should not need both.
What is an Executive Functioning Coach and What do they Do?
Learn what an Executive Functioning Coach is, what an EF coach does and how to become an executive function coach. Plus, video tips from an Executive Function Coach.
10 Differences Between IEP vs 504 (chart)
Inside: Learn the key differences between a 504 and an IEP, so you can make the right decision for your child. Quite often, parents in…
Is an IEP a Legal Document?
Inside: Yes, an IEP is a legally binding document. Understand the framework and laws behind IEPs and what to do if you have a legal…
What Qualifies a Child for an IEP? How does a Student Qualify for an IEP?
What Qualifies a Child for an IEP? What is an IEP student? Is it only for learning disabilities, and what are they? All explained by a Special Education Advocate.
Discrepancy Model vs RTI Model for IEP Eligibility, Explained.
A discrepancy model may be used to determine IEP eligibility. Some states still use the RTI model. Learn what the difference is and how it applies to your child.
When do IEP Minutes have to be made up?
How do you calculate IEP minutes or IEP service minutes? When do IEP minutes have to be made up? How are IEP minutes determined?
How long is a benchmark goal on an IEP?
How long is a benchmark goal on an IEP? And what is the difference between IEP goal benchmarks and IEP goal objectives?
What is a Paraprofessional?
What is a Paraprofessional? Understand hiring requirements, salary and what they can offer your child.
What is SLD Specific Learning Disability on an IEP?
SLD Specific Learning Disability is one of the IDEA eligibility categories. Here’s what you need to know about characteristics of SLD, examples and definitions.
How to Get a 1:1 Aide/Para Added to an IEP.
What to know about getting a 1:1 aide or para on your child’s IEP. From what qualifies a child for a 1:1 aide to getting the para on the IEP.
35 Common Special Education Acronyms, Terms, and Glossary (with PDF)
Is your head spinning at IEP meetings because of all the acronyms? Here are some of the most commonly used Disability and Special Education Acronyms. Free printable!
7 Popular AAC Devices for Autism and Communication
AAC devices can be liberating for autistic children and others who lack verbal communication. A list of the best, and how to get an AAC device for your child.
Revolutionizing Accessibility: 100 Low Tech Assistive Technology Solutions for Classrooms
100 Examples of Low Tech Assistive Technology in the classroom; suggestions for reading, writing, autism, dyslexia and much more.
Other Health Impairments: What is OHI on an IEP? (definition + examples)
What is OHI on the IEP? A thorough explanation of the Other Health Impairments eligibility category, including ADHD and its listing under OHI Eligibility.
What is Assistive Technology? 15 IEP Goals for Assistive Technology and AAC
Inside: Take a deep dive into learning about AT Assistive Technology, and how it differs from AAC. And 15 IEP goals for assistive technology.
List of 504 Accommodations for Anxiety
A printable list of Accommodations for Anxiety for an IEP or 504 Plan, to get you on the path to a more peaceful and calm day for your child at school.
Printable List of 504 Accommodations for Students with Disabilities
Inside: Browse, print, and use this comprehensive list of 504 Accommodations for Students with Disabilities.
11 Examples of IEP Violations and What to Do Next (IEP Complaint Options)
Uncovering the Two Types of IEP Violations: Are Your Child’s Rights Being Upheld?
Dear IEP Team: Don’t Call Me Mom.
Does your IEP team call you “Mom” at IEP meetings? Are you comfortable with that? Let’s explore the pros and cons to this common gesture, and ways to change it if you wish.
What is a Sensory Bin? 50 Sensory Bin Ideas
Inside: What is a sensory bin? Are there benefits to using sensory bins? What are they used for, and for what ages? Plus, we’re sharing…
25 Amazing Inclusion Books for Kids
A list of children’s books about inclusion, from teachers and parents. Add these inclusive children’s books to your home library.
How to Make Kinetic Sand (just 3 Ingredients!)
In this article, we will explore what kinetic sand is, what it is made of, and what it is used for. And then, I have…
Legal Guardianship for Adults with Disabilities: A Beginner’s Guide
This article provides a comprehensive guide to legal guardianship for adults with disabilities, including the benefits and considerations for families and caregivers. Learn how to navigate the process and ensure the best possible care for your loved one.
Denied an IEP or 504 Because Grades are Good? What To Do When “His Grades Are Fine!”
What to do if you are denied an IEP because “his grades are fine!”
Was Dr. Seuss a Racist? See the drawings and judge for yourself.
Dr. Seuss is a phenomenal author and illustrator. Dr. Seuss has a racist past. Both can be true. Both are true.
504 Plan Accommodations for Juvenile Arthritis
If your child has juvenile arthritis, they may require a 504 plan and 504 accommodations to be successful at school. Here are some juvenile arthritis accommodations.
How to Effectively Communicate with your School IEP Team
Professional, accurate, written communication is essential to the IEP and Special Education Process. Tips to get you on the path to having your concerns heard.
Unlocking the World: 15 Essential Tips for Traveling with a Disabled Child
The Ultimate Guide to Special Needs Travel: Adequately (and safely!) prepare for a vacation when your child has a disability or special needs. This can save you some headaches and hassles!
What is an IEP Team? Who are the required IEP Team Members?
What does IDEA say about required members of an IEP team? And what are their roles and responsibilities? All explained by an Special Education Advocate.
Who Attends an IEP meeting? Can I exclude people?
Who Attends IEP Meetings I have a friend and there are 18 school staff people at her IEP meetings. I’ve mentioned many times before how…
How to Write Word Problem IEP Goals (with examples)
IEP Goals for Math Word Problems For many of us, reminiscing about our school days and doing word problems does not bring happy memories. Finally,…
50 Math IEP Goals and Objectives (Printable List PDF)
Math IEP Goals I will never forget this one day when Kevin was a preschooler. We had an IEP meeting, and one of his proposed…
What is Pathological Demand Avoidance?
Pathological demand avoidance in autism explained Listen to this story: Pathological demand avoidance (PDA) is a contentious term. Over the past 40 years, some clinicians…
Autism and Trans: What’s the Correlation?
The largest study to date confirms an overlap between autism and gender diversity People who do not identify with the sex they were assigned at…
25 Disability Awareness Activities for Kids of all Ages
Activities to Teach About Disabilities What better day than today to publish this post! Today is the first day of Developmental Disabilities Awareness month. I…
48 Social Skills IEP Goals for all Ages, including Objectives.
Social Skills IEP Goals It’s no secret that many kids with disabilities struggle socially and struggle to build and maintain friendships. When Brian tells me…
What to Do When the School Wants to Remove IEP Services
Can the School Remove Supports and Services from the IEP? This is probably the number one reason that parents dread IEP meetings. Right? For the…
Weighted Blanket Causing Back Pain? It Probably Is.
Weighted Blanket Causing Pain Weighted blankets. They seem harmless enough, right? So we started using them. I purchased two for our household. In less than…
School and IEP Retaliation: The Shocking Truth About Schools’ Dark Side.
When Your School Calls CPS Sometimes I hear the stories and think “How, how did we get here?” And, many times I’ve seen a parent…
Learn Numbers in Sign Language: Free ASL Numbers Printable
Learning numbers in ASL is one of the easiest ways to get started in learning ASL. Free worksheets for numbers 1-10 in ASL, coloring pages, free PDF.
ASL Colors: Learn Sign Language for Different Colors (free PDF)
Colors in ASL If you are trying to learn sign language, learning clusters or groups of words is a great way to start. Many people…
Sign Language Animals: Learn ASL Animals with this Free Printable
Sign Language Animals This past year, my son went through a full Assistive Technology evaluation. One of the two modalities that we are going to…
The Sign Language Alphabet: Free Downloads for Beginner Fingerspelling
Learning the ASL Alphabet is a quick way to get started in sign language and fingerspelling.
Free Printable Football Bingo Cards with Rules
Football Bingo Are you planning a Super Bowl party or another football-themed event? Looking for some free football bingo cards to print? Well, welcome! This…
50 Common Sign Language Words: How to Say Hello and Thank You in Sign Language
Free Sign Language Flashcards for 25 Basic Sign Language Words in ASL. Get this free PDF download and begin learning sign language today.
How to Say Happy Valentine’s Day in Sign Language
Valentine’s Day in Sign Language What a cute idea! Valentine’s Day cards in ASL. Did you know that ASL is the 4th most used language…
IEP Laws and IDEA Regulations, Explained: IDEA Laws for all 50 States
IEP Laws and Regulations Several years ago, I was at a fundraiser. It was for an agency that assists disabled people. So, naturally, they had…
Free Printable IEP Meeting Checklist: How to Prepare for an IEP Meeting
IEP Meeting Checklist This is an ancient post that I have been meaning to update for ages. I see the image show up on Pinterest,…
Perfect Attendance Awards: 8 Reasons why they’re a Bad Idea.
Perfect Attendance Awards Perfect attendance awards are a terrible idea. I get it–I get why they were developed. To encourage kids with chronic absenteeism to…
Setting SMART Goals: Examples, Worksheets and Templates
Inside: Learn everything you need to know to start setting SMART goals, including the SMART goals acronym, smart goal examples and smart goal worksheets. Goals…
What is Proprioception? IEP Strategies and Accommodations
Tell me if you’ve heard of a scenario like this. It’s the perfect example of a child who lacks proprioceptive skills. Students are in a…
5 At-Home Strategies for Speech and Language Skills, from a Special Ed Teacher.
Worried about reinforcing speech and language skills at home? Here are 5 Tips from a Special Education Teacher.
What is IDEA Child Find?
“That’s a Child Find issue.You need to report them for Child Find!” If your child has an IEP, chances are you have heard these phrases.
25 Impulse Control IEP Goals and Accommodations
Many students struggle with Impulse Control Disorders, secondary to other learning disabilities. Here are goal and accommodation ideas to add to an IEP or 504 plan.
The White House Easter Egg Roll 2023 | What to Know Before You Go
The White House Easter Egg Roll | 2023 | What to Know Before You Go: Here’s how you get tickets, travel tips for parking and eating, and accessibility information.
20 Do’s and Don’ts for an IEP Meeting (especially if it’s tomorrow!)
If your IEP meeting is tomorrow, you don’t have much time. Read these sanity-saving tips so that you’re ready, but not overwhelmed.
10 Best Teacher Appreciation Week Gift Ideas
Need some Teacher Appreciation gifts but don’t have a lot of money? Check out this list of DIY and other inexpensive gift ideas.
Why Are School Vouchers and School Choice Bad? Lots of Reasons.
You don’t find failing public schools and charter schools in wealthy neighborhoods.
What are Temporal Words? (includes anchor chart)
Some studies show that autistic people may struggle with the perception of time. Remember, time can be abstract, so it is our responsibility to give…
5 Must Read FAQs About Transferring an IEP if you Move
Does your child’s IEP transfer from state to state? Can you remain in the same school if you move? Here’s what you need to know about transferring an IEP.
What are the 6 Principles of IDEA? (and How to Apply at every IEP Meeting)
6 Principles of Special Education I have to open this post with a shout-out to blog reader Mike T. He emailed me a link to…
Tips for Visiting The Grand Canyon with Kids (and where to stay!)
Are you thinking about visiting the Grand Canyon with the kids? The national park is a beautiful place for vacation and will likely be one…
100 Sensational Summer Bucket List Ideas for 2023
Summer doesn’t have to be complicated or expensive. Use this PDF printable summer bucket list for kids for over 100 Summer Fun Ideas for kids and teens.
Special Needs Trusts: How and When to Set One Up
SNTs are legal arrangements in which a trustee holds, manages, and distributes assets to a beneficiary. The beneficiary is the disabled person. In most situations,…
Fastnacht Day 2023 | History | What is Fasnacht Day?
Whether you spell it Fastnacht Day or Fasnacht Day, it’s a day to eat donuts! Learn about this PA Dutch Holiday on Fat Tuesday, including a kids’ word search.
Pączki Day 2023 | When is it? What is Pączki Day?
Pączki Day (Fat Tuesday in Poland) is one of my favorite holidays. And, we get to celebrate it twice! Read more about Pączki Day 2023. PDF Word Search for kids, too.
List of 25 Indoor Playgrounds in Chester County (free and fee)
List of dozens of indoor playgrounds in the Philadelphia area, including Chester county, Delaware and NJ.
4 Free Groundhog Day Activities for Kids (Printable PDFs)
These FREE Groundhog Day activities for kids will help you explain Groundhog Day and its accuracy and make your own predictions. Perfect for preschool, kindergarten,…
The Best Times to Visit Longwood Gardens (from a local and annual pass holder!)
The Christmas event gets all the fame, but any time of year is perfect. Local secrets including Restaurants near Longwood Gardens + Best Times to Visit.
Sensory Overload: How to Recognize and Manage the Symptoms.
Is Sensory Overload really a ‘thing?’ YES. It happens to people with anxiety, autism, ADHD, and other conditions. How to help and prevent sensory overload.
Fun, Affordable Things to Do in Hershey, PA (and what to skip!)
Here are the 3 things in Hershey PA that I recommend you not do. This is a must-read for autism families or those with sensory issues!
Inflectional or Inflected Endings: Charts, Examples, and IEP Goals
Many of our learning-disabled kids struggle to communicate. The causes vary, from expressive or receptive language disorder to hyperlexia, processing, or even dyslexia. If you…
Does your Child have Hyperlexia, Autism, or Gestalt Language Processing? How to Know.
When your child is diagnosed with a specific learning disability, or you suspect a disability of some kind, many words are thrown at you. Until…
How to Easily Track IEP Goals and Monitor IEP Progress.
IEP Goal Tracking IEP data tracking and progress monitoring in special education are among the most important things about an IEP. And yet tracking IEP…
10 Free Printable MLK Day Activities for Kids, including ‘I Have a Dream’
MLK Day Printables MLK Day can be fun, serious, educational, and thoughtful. Here are activities and projects for kids to make the day memorable, including…
What is CVI Cortical Visual Impairment?
Cortical Visual Impairment I recently attended a conference to educate myself on Cortical Visual Impairment, one of my son’s diagnoses. It was so enlightening and…
25 Free, Printable Adult Coloring Pages PDFs
Adult Coloring Book Pages I love this new trend! It’s what moms have known for generations; coloring is fun! But it made international news when…
Are You Gaslighted at School or IEP Meetings? {Spoiler Alert: Probably!}
Gaslighting at School I remember the first time I was gaslighted at an IEP meeting. It probably wasn’t the first time, but it was the…
8 Tips to Prevent and Get Out of Truancy Charges
I looked at the mom/client sitting next to me at truancy court and gave her hand a squeeze. She looked up and gave me a…
How to Have an Inclusive Valentine’s Day | Special Education Valentine’s Day Activities
10 tips to make your Valentine’s Day inclusive for all students, including some ideas for activities for special education.
What is FAPE? 8 Special Education Court Cases that Defined our Kids’ Rights.
FAPE This trend is really bothersome to me. I have recently had conversations with several different parents who are unfamiliar with the term FAPE or…
504 Plans, explained.
Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act is a federal law designed to protect the rights of individuals with disabilities in programs and activities that receive…
What to Know About Xfinity Essentials, the Internet Disability Discount Program.
I had the chance to attend a super cool event at Pennsylvania School for the Deaf to celebrate teh Xfinity Essentials program. Many of our…
What is Dysgraphia? Symptoms, Treatment and 17 IEP Accommodations
IEP for Dysgraphia “Dysgraphia? What’s is dysgraphia? I’ve never heard of it!” This is a scenario that has come up many times to parents in…
10 Doable New Year’s Resolutions for Moms
New Year’s Resolutions for Moms. Pffft. Every year, many Americans set them. Yet, only 8% of us keep them. Crazy, huh? I’m part of the…
Title 1 Schools and Your IEP, Explained.
When the ESEA was enacted over 50 years ago, one concept borne out of that was Title 1 and Title 1 schools. Despite being around…
Kennedy Space Center near Orlando: Review with Photos and Family Travel Tips
Kennedy Space Center The Kennedy Space Center Visitor Complex is one of Florida’s top attractions, after the Orlando theme parks. The complex is located on…
48 IEP and 504 Accommodations for Trauma or PTSD
IEP or 504 for Trauma or PTSD It’s amazing how we go through life, just doing what we do, not knowing what we don’t know….
When an IEP Team Tells a Parent, “We Don’t Do That Here.”
We don’t do that here. I got two inquiries recently that are very similar. Both parents asked for something on their child’s IEP and were…
Can Schools Only Offer a Virtual IEP Meeting instead of In Person? | Sample Virtual IEP Meeting Agenda
Virtual IEP Meetings In the first quarter of 2020, we had no idea how much our lives were going to change. Not just for the…
53 Measurable IEP Goals and Objectives for Writing and Written Expression
IEP Goals for Writing Parents can certainly assist the IEP team with developing goals. One IEP area that I find parents and teachers struggle with…
The Best Swim Diaper for Adults and Older Kids (and where to buy them!)
Swim Diaper for Adults This has been a huge struggle and colossal waste of money for us. Finding an adult swim diaper for an older…
The Autism Epilepsy Connection: My Son’s Brain Surgery
Can preventing seizures alter the course of autism? Delicate lines dance across a screen mounted on the wall of the operating room. Their peaks and…
35 Common Questions about IEP Meetings, Answered by a Special Education Advocate
IEP Meeting Questions Over the past decade, I have attended hundreds of IEP meetings and met with hundreds of families. And, with the large chat…
23 Food Allergy Accommodations to Include in your 504 Plan
504 Plans for Food Allergies On this website, you will find many articles that discuss the overuse of 504 plans. They were never intended to…
What are Echolalia and Autistic Scripting?
Does your child repeat back words to you, often? Are they repeating words and phrases over and over? Or maybe reciting movie and TV lines?…
What is Animal Assisted Therapy? How do you find a program?
Pet Therapy vs Animal-Assisted Therapy “Is that a therapy dog?” The good news–more and more, we (society) are better understanding the human/animal bond, and using…
4 Best Classroom Pet Ideas (and which ones to avoid!)
Pets in the Classroom Pets in the classroom are now easy for every teacher to get. The benefits students receive just by having a pet…
40 IEP Goals for Executive Functioning Skills
Executive Functions IEP Goals Executive function is an umbrella term for cognitive processes such as planning, working memory, attention, problem solving, verbal reasoning, inhibition, mental…
Printable List of Executive Functioning Accommodations for an IEP or 504 Plan
If your child is struggling with executive function disorder, here are some accommodation and strategies to add to your IEP or 504 plan.
Executive Dysfunction Test: What IEP Assessments to Consider
Which IEP Tests will look for Executive Functioning Deficits? Executive functioning skills have been quite a buzzword and trend in special education over the past…
10 Best Visual Timers for Kids with Autism or ADHD
Does your child benefit from a visual reinforcer? Then take a look at these online and other visual timers for kids who have sensory needs.
What is Hyperfixation? How do You Stop Being Hyperfixated on things?
Hyperfixation Lots of teens love video games. Everyone knows that. And many teens, autistic or neurotypical, play video games too often, which can interfere with…
What are Age-Appropriate Interests for a Developmentally Disabled or Autistic Adult?
Autism and Age-Appropriate Interests “Who gets to decide what is an age-appropriate interest for a disabled or autistic child?” This is an issue that has…
504 Accommodations for ADHD (PDF List)
504 Plan ADHD It is estimated that 5-12% of all American kids have some type of ADHD. If you found this Accommodations Guide, chances are…
How to Build a Meaningful IEP for Autism (PDF Sample IEP for Autism with Goals)
IEP for Autism For almost 10 years, readers have been asking me questions about an IEP and autism. It’s quite common in our chat forums…
20 Free Apps for Executive Functioning Skill Deficits (adults and students)
Apps for Executive Functioning After preparing this blog post, I plan to go back to the Google Play store and get some of these apps…
What is an IEP? And does your child need one?
IEP For as much time as I spent talking and teaching parents about IEPs, I don’t think I’ve ever actually explained what an IEP and…
10 Free Symmetry Drawing Worksheets for Kids (winter-themed PDF)
Symmetry Drawing Worksheets When snow and ice come around, many schools move to an online format. It can be hard to keep kids engaged when…
What Disabled People Need to Know about Live Nation and Ticketmaster Accessibility
Live Nation Accessible Seats I am revisiting and updating older posts, to see if they are still relevant. When they are no longer relevant, I…
Is My Teacher or Therapist IDEA Qualified? What if the teacher is not a good fit for my child?
How to Find Out if a Teacher or Therapist is Certified “How do I check if a teacher or therapist is qualified?” “I bet she’s…
9 Things to Know Before Heading to the PA Farm Show
PA Farm Show Right after the holiday season, I have my eye on one other thing-the PA Farm Show! The 2023 PA Farm Show is…
What is an IEP Mom?
IEP Moms “Mrs. Lightner, we’ll add the additional hour of OT to Kevin’s plan, but I want you to know that he is the only…
What to Expect (and do!) When Your Child has a Disability
For the Newly Diagnosed With a Disability Welcome! None of us expected to be here, but here we are. And I’m here to tell you,…
Zero Waste Christmas Ideas and Waste-Free Christmas Gifts for Kids
Zero Waste Christmas Ideas I’m sad that we’re not going to see some family members this Christmas. But I have to admit, I’m a little…
Brain Breaks: 10 Ideas and Activities for Kids at School
Brain Breaks for Kids As adults, we know we need brain breaks. It’s why the phrase “water cooler chat” became a thing. Workers realize they…
What is Self Regulation? 18 IEP Goals and Accommodations for Self-Regulation Skills
Emotional self-regulation is a necessary executive functioning skill that all kids need to develop. Some will require direct instruction.
Why IEP Parents Should Never Agree to the “Let’s just Wait and See”
Let’s Just Wait and See I’d be willing to be my house and my car that 99% of all IEP parents have experienced the “Let’s…
Can a School District Refuse to Evaluate a Child for Special Education?
Refused IEP Evaluations Let me be blunt. If your child’s IEP evaluations suck, the rest of your IEP will be garbage. Without good evaluations, the…
My IEP is Not Working (what to do next)
How do I know if the IEP is working? Your child getting an IEP is not the final step in your IEP journey. It is…
How to Create a Compelling GoFundMe Page (and make it go viral!)
Start a GoFundMe Page GoFundMe has become increasingly popular in recent years. It makes sense. Times are tough for a lot of people. It’s no…
What does LEA stand for in Special Education? Understand the LEA Role at your IEP Meeting.
Who or what is the LEA in Special Education? What does it stand for? Can I exclude them from my IEP meeting?
7 Audiologist-Recommended Noise Cancelling Headphones for Autism, ADHD, or Anxiety
These cool noise-cancelling headphones can help with Autism or ADHD focus issues, avoid sensory overload and reduce stress. Decibel ratings too.
Overcoming Some Internal Bias: Yes, yes he runs.
Sometimes our own internal biases show up and reveal themselves in unexpected places.
30 Measurable IEP Goals for Handwriting, including OT, Fine Motor and Fluency
IEP Goals for Handwriting | Handwriting issues can be much more than a fine motor planning issue. It could be dysgraphia, dyslexia, vision issues, or something else entirely.
How to Get Your Free Lifetime National Parks Pass for Disabilities
Did you know if you have a disability, you may qualify for a FREE LIFETIME pass to our National Parks? Includes a printable list of activities for national parks.
19 Inclusive Sports Programs for Disabled Kids
Sports for Kids with Disabilities: List of Inclusive Sports Programs for Kids with a Disability, plus the benefits of sports for disabled kids.
15 Super Relatable IEP Memes for Moms | IEP Meeting Memes
Looking for that perfect meme to describe how you feel about IEPs and IEP meetings? Here you go–everything from Hey Girl to Escape Room to RBF.
How and Why to Build Social Capital for your Disabled Child.
There are many scholars who think social capital is more important than any skill learned, especially for people with disabilities.
How to Have a 30-Day Kindness Challenge with your Family
Inspire your kids and yourself as you do a Kindness Challenge together. You can do these in November for World Kindness Day or anytime.
Can IEP Assessments and Evaluations be Done Virtually? What is a Virtual IEP Evaluation?
Now that quarantine is over, many school districts are still providing many evaluations and support virtually. Here’s what parents need to know.
What is Kinesthetic Learning? Does My Child Need It?
Many students learn better through movement and doing, rather than sitting and listening. Here’s how you can support your kinesthetic learner.
15 Best Sensory Toys for Adults
Here are some reader-recommended sensory toys for adults, including those with disabilities like autism, ADHD, and intellectual disabilities.
50 Best Teacher and OT Recommended Toys for Autism
A Special Education Teacher, OT, and others share their recommendations for the best toys for autistic and disabled children; plus how to use them effectively.
Interoception and your IEP: How to Improve Interoceptive Skills
Interoception and Interoceptive Skills Several years ago, I took my boys up to my Dad’s house. Kevin just walked into the room where we were,…
What is a Sensory Diet? (Examples)
A sensory diet may help a child improve their self-regulation skills. Read how, why, and getting a sensory diet added to your child’s IEP.
Holidays with a Disabled Child | 10 Tips for a Stress Free Season
10 Tips for you to have stress free holidays in your Special Needs Household. Ideas for both moms and kids…and everyone is happy!
Free Printable Christmas Thank You Notes for Kids (Fill in the Blank Templates)
These Christmas thank-you notes are fill-in-the-blank to make it easier for younger kids or those who struggle with reading or writing due to a learning disability.
Free IEP Goal Bank with 1000+ Measurable IEP Goals and Objectives separated by Domain
The Ultimate IEP Goal Bank! A free list of IEP Goals and IEP Objectives separated by category or area of need; includes a PDF of IEP goals.
20 Best Christmas Books for Tweens, Teens, and Middle Schoolers
Best Christmas Books for Teens and Middle Schoolers 20 minutes a day! That has been browbeaten into me ever since I was pregnant. I loved…
Your Child’s Strengths | 127 Student Strength Examples to Swipe for your IEP
Sometimes we get so wrapped up in getting our kids’ needs met, we forget to address a Student’s Strengths. What are your child’s strengths? Grabe these ideas for your IEP.
Understanding the Emotional Disturbance IEP Category: IEP Goals, Accommodations, Examples
Emotional Disturbance on your IEP: Understand the criteria for this category, plus a list of IEP goals, accommodations, and teaching strategies.
39 Behavior Goals for an IEP including Work/Task Completion
If your child has negative behaviors at school, they should receive an FBA and a Behavior Plan. Here are behavior goal ideas for your IEP.
15 Popular Fiction Books with Autistic or Disabled Main Characters
Great list of fiction books for kids with a character with autism, disabilities or just plain quirky. There are a few suggestions for each age group and ability.
How to Find a Dentist for Kids with Autism
Just because a dentist says they serve the disability population doesn’t mean that they serve all kids. Questions to ask and what to know about restraints.
Autism and Haircuts: How to Find the Perfect Autism Barber
My autistic child LOVES going to the barber. Yours can too. Here’s what to look for to find that perfect autism barber or autism haircut.
Autism, ADHD and Daylight Savings Time: Small Time Change, Huge Disruption
How to Successfully Manage Daylight Savings Time in the Neurodivergent Household: Autism | ADHD | Tips for Managing this stressful week (or weeks!)
The Hidden Costs of Special Needs Parenting
These extra costs don’t occur because my child is disabled. They occur because our society is not set up to support disabled people.
What is NVLD Non-Verbal Learning Disorder? (Symptoms)
Is your child struggling with pragmatics and other issues, but you just can’t find what fits their symptoms? Read about NVLD. It gave many parents that a-ha! moment.
40 IEP Goals for Reading Comprehension, including Strategies
Everything you need for Reading and Reading Comprehension and your IEP: IEP goals, strategies, evaluations, and more.
How to Improve Focus and Attention, Reduce Anxiety: 15 Activities and Foods
15 Activities and Lifestyle Changes you can make to improve focus and attention and decrease anxiety.
25 Disabled Elf on the Shelf Ideas (Autism, Wheelchair, Hospital)
Wheelchair and Hospital Elf Ideas I’ll admit, when Elf first came out, I loved him. Then I hated him. Well, not him, but I hated…
50 Easy, Last-Minute Elf on the Shelf Ideas (with pictures)
You’re in bed and you think “I forgot to move the elf!” No worries, here are 50 super simple last-minute Elf on the Shelf Ideas, with photos. And no props!
The Difference between Charter School vs. Public School: A Guide for Families.
Before you enroll your child in any school, know the differences between a Public School vs. a Charter School. Outcomes matter!
Off the Books Suspensions: What to Do When the School Calls You
Does your child keep getting sent home from school? Is the school constantly calling you to come pick them up due to behaviors? That’s an informal suspension.
Crossing Midline: 12 Crossing the Midline Activities for Older Kids
Crossing midline is often a skill that teams stop working on once the child hits tween years. But if your teen or adult needs the skill, here are some activities to practice crossing midline.
You’ve Been Booed Poem for Your Neighbors | Boo Poem Printable
The Halloween Boo! tradition is a great way to have fun + celebrate Halloween with your neighbors. Plan now and start it in early October,
IEP Transition Goals Bank: Developing Meaningful Goals beyond “Food, Filth and Flowers.”
Parents, you need to take ownership of the IEP transition goals and process for your child. Here’s how to start.
25 Best Gifts that Autistic and Disabled Teenagers and Adults Actually Want
Gift for Disabled Teenager and Adults Teens and adults with autism and disabilities can be so hard to buy for! This post was crowd sourced…
31 Best Apple Picking Orchards | 2023 | NJ | PA | DE | MD
What is the BEST PLACE for apple picking near me? Check out these 31 apple orchards in New Jersey, PA, Delaware and Maryland. Pick your own apples, yum!
(Pictures) How to Best Visit the National Archives Museum in Washington, DC | Sleepover
The National Archives in Washington, DC is an amazing place to visit. We did the Archives Sleepover, and offering some local restaurant ideas too.
12 Family Friendly Tips for Visiting the National Constitution Center in Philadelphia
Tips for visiting the National Constitution Center especially if you are traveling with kids and disabilities. It’s a great outing, you should go!
I Was Offered a 504/RTI/MTSS When I Asked for an IEP | Next Steps
You think your child needs an IEP. The school offered a 504, RTII or MTSS. So, what’s the difference, and what are your options? Next steps for parents.
19 Playtime Fine Motor Activities for Babies: 0-12 Month Development
List of what fine motor skills your infant or baby should be developing, and 19 fun activities to practice and help them grow.
Video: Access Denied: The Effects on Discrimination in Education
A video discussion of the long term effects of discrimination and racism in public education.
I Don’t Need You to Tell Me How to Feel about Parenting a Disabled Child.
Parenting a Disabled Child This might be the biggest decision you’ll ever make as a parent. I’m talking about the decision to be happy. No,…
Best Indoor Water Park in Pennsylvania: Travel Tips for Kalahari Resort in Poconos
Kalahari Water Park and Resort in the Poconos is definitely the best indoor waterpark in Pennsylvania. Here is a sensory friendly travel review.
Are There Different Levels of Dyscalculia?
Levels of Dyscalculia Dyscalculia is a condition that makes it difficult for people to understand math. Those with dyscalculia may find it challenging to solve…
Atlantic City Airshow Viewing: 10 Tips for Watching, including Practice Day
Should you go the Atlantic City Airshow? In a word, absolutely! We just got back from our 3rd or 4th time attending the Atlantic City…
Not All Hand Flapping is Autism | The Case for Stimming
Hand Flapping when Excited That is not Autism Let’s just get this out there–everybody, and I mean EVERYBODY stims. Yes, we all do it. But…
IEP Present Levels of Performance PLOP | Examples | Checklist
IEP Present Levels Ask almost any Special Education Advocate, and they’ll tell you that Present Levels is the most important section of the IEP. Present…
Why a Doctor’s Note is not the IEP Slam Dunk you Think it is.
Do IEP Teams have to honor Doctors’ Notes? I won’t ever forget the interaction I had with one of Kevin’s neurologists. We had a regular…
Teacher Shortages 2023 | How the Staffing Crisis is affecting your IEP | What to Do
Teacher Shortages I genuinely cannot believe that this story is not getting more press coverage. I just happened upon it while doing research for another…
Inference for Kids | Definition | IEP Goals and Objectives | Resources
Inference Definition for Kids “Mommy, is that Lady Gaga?” When my youngest was a toddler, he LOVED Lady Gaga. I have no idea why or…
What Are the 14 IDEA Disability Categories? Does it Matter Which Box is Checked?
14 Categories of Disabilities in IDEA There are 14 categories of disabilities listed in IDEA. Autism Deaf-blindness Deafness Developmental delay (DD) Emotional disturbance (ED) Hearing…
Is “Special Needs” Offensive? The new term to say instead of Special Needs.
Special Needs vs. Disability Several months ago, I did a blog post about People First Language, and why it shouldn’t be mandated. Certainly not by…
Can you get an IEP in High School?
High School IEP Surprisingly, I am asked the question about IEPs in High School quite often. More than I am comfortable with, but more on…
What is Phonemic Awareness? | IEP Assessments | 5 Fun Effective Strategies for Parents
Phonemic Awareness The other day, my 13-year-old sports son fan and I had a short but confusing discussion. I knew he was looking at a…
10 Best Fidget Toys | Where to Buy Cheap Fidget Toys for School
Best Fidget Toys I recently participated in a local consignment sale. My youngest son had quite the collection of fidget spinners. That was a short-lived…
20 Best Kid-Friendly, Fun, Family Farms | PA | Philadelphia | DE | MD
Farms Near Me for Kids to Visit We just love visiting farms. Both of my kids love animals, Kevin in particular. There are many local…
10 Common Q&A about Private Schools and IEPs | Special Education
Private Schools and IEPs This topic makes me sad. Because it’s so super deflating for parents. Many times, attending a private school is a tradition…
Due Process Hearing in Special Education | 6 Tips from a Hearing Officer
Can you Win a Due Process Hearing without a lawyer? We’d do anything for our kids. Anything. And since some of us have been dealt…
40 IEP Transition Goals for Students on the Path to Postsecondary | Jobs
IEP Transition Goals for Postsecondary or Job I was leery of how I could use the word “postsecondary” and not create any confusion. To be…
30 IEP Goals Addressing Sexual Relationships
Sexual Relationship IEP Goals Sexual relationships are a part of every adult’s life. Whether or not we want to think about it or talk about…
50 IEP Goals for Safety and Community Participation
Personal Safety and Community Participation Originally, I had this giant article with a list of over 300 independent living skills. Many of you, teachers and…
42 IEP Goals for Personal Hygiene and Medications | Menstruation
Personal Hygiene IEP Goals Personal hygiene skills is something that many of us take for granted. If you do not pick up on social cues,…
41 Independent Living Skills and IEP Goals | Shopping and Banking
Shopping and Banking Independent Living Skills Originally, I had this giant article with a list of over 300 independent living skills. Many of you, teachers…
50 IEP Goals for Independent Living Skills | Transportation | Renting
Transition IEP Goals We all want our kids to live as independently as possible. Sometimes when I think about it, I kinda can’t believe that…
100 Functional Life Skills IEP Goals | Independent Functioning
Independent Functioning IEP Goals for Life Skills Before I get started with this list of Life Skills Functional Goals for an IEP, I want to…
Anxiety and Summer Camp | Sleepovers
Summer Camp and Anxiety Summer is here and for many kids, that may mean sleep away camp or sleepovers at a friend’s or grandparent’s house….
5 Strategies to Advocate for Persons with Mental Health Issues.
Mental Health Advocate Mental health, depression and suicide are all the chatter following Kate Spade’s death. In honor of that, I am updating a post…
How to Get Your Autistic Child to Try New Foods (written by an autistic person!)
A dangerous, yet common, misconception in regard to autistic kids is that they will eat if they’re hungry enough. The reality is that hunger, appetite…
Do you have an IEP Emergency Plan? School Shootings | Weather | Evacuation
Evacuation Plan on your IEP When I was in school, we regularly had nuclear drills. We either hid under our desks or ran to a…
Is Your 3rd Grader Struggling? It’s Probably the Matthew Effect in Reading.
Matthew Effect | Matthew Principle Ask any Special Education Advocate, and I bet they all will tell you that they have a huge chunk of…
What is a Life Skills Classroom? Is it the Same as a Resource Room?
Life Skills Classroom | Special Education Resource Room I really hate the term life skills. I mean, after all, we ALL need life skills. It’s…
5 Popular Stim Toys for Autism or ADHD | Cheap | DIY | Chew
Stim Toys Quality stim toys can be hard to find, since fidget toys and chewy jewelry, or chewelry, is trendy. Even the higher priced ones…
55 Functional Money Skills and IEP Goals | Modern Money Skills
Functional Money Skills Remember when we were little, and we thought nickels were worth more than dimes, just because they were bigger? Ah, those were…
How to Redirect Self Injurious Behavior | Autism
Self Injurious Behavior and Autism Self-injurious autistic behaviors do not illustrate why stimming, or self-regulatory behaviors, are bad. Stimming is harmless by default and crucial…
Autistic Shutdowns
You might have heard about autistic meltdowns, but what about autistic shutdowns? The two terms are often used interchangeably by non-autistic autism professionals, but autism…
What is Summer School? What Do you Do in Summer School Programs?
What is Summer School? Summer school has a terrible stigma in this country. And, wrongfully so in my opinion. First, the whole concept of children…
9 Clever (and Fun!) Summer Camp Themes | 2023
Summer Camp Activities (Note: this post was originally written during the 2020 pandemic, so the first couple of paragraphs may not apply. The summer camp…
10 Mental Health Tips for IEP Moms
Mental Health Tips for Moms Being an IEP mom is no easy task. In addition to all the other mom chores we do, we have…
6 Must Do First Week of School Activities for Special Education | Teachers and Parents
First Week of Special Education I’m a crazy over planner. While everyone is just trying to get through to the end of a school year,…
10 Outdoors Activities for Autism | How to Get Autistic Kids and Adults Outside More Often
Outdoor Activities for Autistics Today really reiterated to me that I need to get back to the outdoors and get my kids outside. I had…
Vocabulary IEP Goals
Once a child has been identified as a student with a learning disability, it can be tough for the IEP team to come to agreement…
3 Best Adaptive Bikes for Autistic Teens | Adults with Disabilities
Autism and Riding a Bike I get a surprising number of inquiries about this. Ever since I posted a photo of my son riding our…
10 Ways to Help Children with Low Self-Esteem
Kids and Self Esteem All children are different and unique in their own ways, but one thing that all children have in common is the…
Sensory Friendly Philadelphia | 50 Fun Places and Activities for Kids on the Spectrum
Sensory Friendly Philadelphia If you’re the parent of a child with sensory sensitivities, you know that it can be challenging to find activities and attractions…
The IEP Team Met Without Me!
The IEP Team had a Meeting without You. Let’s be honest, not everyone fully understands the IEP process and what it entails. It’s a complicated…
Knoebels Amusement Park: Secrets to Know Before you Go!
Knoebels Amusement Park One of my favorite places to visit is Knoebels in Elysburg, PA. I have been going there ever since I was a…
How to Get a 504 Plan | 3 Easy-to-Follow Steps
How to get a 504 Plan Before I get to the steps of how to ask for a 504 plan for your child, I feel…
ARFID | A Family Guide to Overcoming ARFID
ARFID “Mom, I don’t want another ham and cheese sandwich for lunch.” “Well, you don’t eat anything else for lunch. Give me something else to…
5 Free Google Organization Apps that help Manage the Disability Household
Google Organization Apps Let’s face it, when you have a disabled child, Moms and Dads become caseworkers. I’ve never seen one person, let alone a…
IEP Issues | 7 Issues Most Parents Are Causing
IEP Issues Hurdles slow you down. If you know they are there, you can run faster than if you don’t know they are there. But…
Fairmount Water Works | 5 Reasons You Need to Visit this Amazing Little Gem in Philadelphia
Fairmount Water Works I recently had the opportunity to visit the Fairmount Water Works. And I can’t believe I’ve never gone before! It has so…
Seizure Disorder | 6 Things I Wish I had been told about my Son’s Seizure Disorder
Seizure Disorder I’ve been having some real “beat myself up” moments about Kevin and his risk for seizures. Things I should have known. Or could…
Cellulitis from a Bug Bite? Yes! Here’s What to Look For.
Cellulitis from a Bug Bite Can you get cellulitis from a mosquito bite? Cellulitis from an insect bite? In a word, yes! It’s happened to…
Tuckerton Seaport Museum | 5 Reasons You Should Go!
Tuckerton Seaport Museum This past Saturday, we were invited to a blogger event at the Tuckerton Seaport Museum. I knew my 4-year-old would love the…
Rocking Horse Ranch Resort | Highland, NY | Is it worth the money?
Rocking Horse Ranch Over Labor Day weekend, my parents invited us to join them at the Rocking Horse Ranch in Highland, NY. Rocking Horse Ranch…
DIY Weighted Doll | Easy | Budget-friendly
DIY Weighted Doll File this under, “If I can make a DIY weighted doll, anyone can.” Because I am NOT crafty. I’ll show you step-by-step…
Hopewell Furnace | 7 Essential Tips to know before you go with kids
Hopewell Furnace Recently I took both of my boys up to Hopewell Furnace National Historic Site. It is located in Berks County, in Elverson. It…
Disability Moms | 9 Habits of Happy, Strong, and Successful Disability Moms
Disability Moms Yesterday I had a lovely phone conversation with someone whose child was recently diagnosed with a disability. We have mutual friends who referred…
Due Process Special Education | 6 Critical Points to Consider Before Filing
Due Process Special Education Should I file for special education due process? Special Education Due Process is one of a parent’s rights in Procedural Safeguards….
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When your Child Lies As I often begin many articles, I state “this has been coming up in the Facebook group a lot lately.” And,…
5 Best Things to do in Orlando with Kids, that are not Disney!
Things to do with Kids in Orlando Right around Easter, my husband found out that his company was going to send him to Orlando for…
Easy Fundraisers for Schools | 8 Non-Cash Ways to Donate to Schools
Easy Fundraisers for Schools It’s back to school time, and I swear, every time I turn around, I’m writing another check for this or that….
Disabled Child Grandparenting | Including Extended Family in your Disability Household
Disabled Child Grandparenting Disabled Child Grandparenting? That’s a phrase you never heard even 20 years ago. Now, grandparents want to know. It’s their nature to…
Buying a Home While Disabled | 11 programs that help People with Disabilities buy Homes.
Buying a Home While Disabled Buying a home while disabled may feel impossible but here are 11 programs available to help you. I’ve compiled a…
Chester County Special Education | Best School Districts
Chester County Special Education Omigosh, if I had a nickel for every time I was asked this! Ok, this is not the answer you want…
Wraparound Services | What are they? | How do I apply?
Wraparound Services As I’ve navigated my way through the disability community over the past fifteen years, I’ve noticed a trend. That is, NO ONE TELLS…
Auditory Processing Disorder | APD | IEP Goals | Accommodations
Auditory Processing Disorder The other day, my younger son and I were on my tablet. We were choosing team gear to purchase for his new…
Sample IEP Goals for Autism Elopement
Autism and Elopement One concept or behavior that you may be exposed to as an IEP parent is elopement. Unfortunately, I am not talking about…
Ridin Hy Ranch | 5 Things to Know Before you Go!
Ridin’ Hy Ranch Is Ridin’ Hy Ranch disability-friendly? Ridin’ Hy Ranch is an all-inclusive resort nestled in the mountainside of Adirondack State Park, in New…
How to Have Meaningful Parent Participation in the IEP Process
IEP Parent Participation Nothing disappoints me more than when I hear about a parent not learning the IEP process and maximizing their rights in the…
Earth Day Scavenger Hunt | Free | Printable | PDF
Earth Day Scavenger Hunt Earth Day is a great time to get the family outside and learn about the environment around us! One fun way…
7 Earth Day Crafts for Kids | Free | Printables
Earth Day Craft for Kids Earth Day is the perfect opportunity to get your kids involved in some fun and unique crafts. There are so…
