Your Child’s Strengths: 127 Student Examples You Can Use Today

As parents, our job is to teach and guide our little people into becoming adults. We are supposed to spot their weaknesses, or where they need to grow, and set them up to grow in that area.

And when we do that, sometimes we forget to highlight our child’s strengths and nurture them. If you’re an IEP this can get even trickier. We get so focused on getting our kids’needs met that we forget to focus on their strengths.

1. Outstanding memory in areas of interest
2. willingness to forgive and give people second chances
3. Persistent in reaching his desired outcome
4. He has a strong desire for social connection and friendship
5. He has an excellent memory and excels in completing tasks when given clear lists or flowcharts
6. strong negotiating skills
7. Is curious about the world around him/her
8. Has a good sense of time, can plan
9. Fun fashion sense as a means of expression
10. Sensory/tactile learner, multi-sensory learner
11. great at finding efficiencies
12. able to recognize when work is truly necessary
13. Eager to learn when refocused consistently
14. When regulated M is a sweet considerate child
15. Thinks out-of-the-box to find unconventional and creative solutions
16. Generous and sharing
17. exercises great emotional restraint when pushed to his limits
18. Is empathetic toward the needs of others even if he cannot express
19. Demonstrates an ability to learn
20. Consistently processes information and responds, even though it is a delayed response
21. ability to verbalize when he is upset or dysregulated
22. may appear disinterested in class or not paying attention, but when questioned can regurgitate back the information that was just presented
23. May be impulsive, but once regulated can usually identify the situation and trigger with great accuracy
24. Can solve equations in his head, but may show frustration at having to show work
25. enjoys sticking to a routine
26. Can adapt to changes in daily schedule with proper warning and notification and explanation
27. strong desire to do well and please others
28. a happy, pleasant child when regulated
29. is able to set realistic, achievable goals for herself
30. Can follow 1/2/3 step directions
31. Can follow directions when given clear, direct language
32. Is able to and will ask for help when needed
33. Can make a decision given 2/3/5 choices
34. will interact appropriately with peers
35. communicates appropriately to peers
36. can initiate tasks/projects
37. working memory has improved to where she can…….
38. can listen intently without interrupting
39. will raise a hand and wait patiently to be called on
40. recognizes and respects the personal space of others
41. can do 4/5/6 volleys in a 2-way conversation
42. can verbalize when being teased/bullied and respond appropriately
43. will accept unsolicited adult assistance/help without resistance
44. good sense of balance and motor planning
45. Learns material best when moving around, gross motor movement
46. Likes to ride his/her bike, skateboard, and/or other self-powered personal vehicles
47. good physical health
48. physically strong
49. athletic abilities (elaborate)
50. Likes to exercise and will initiate independently
51. good physical endurance
52. Can follow instructions/rules for games such as (give examples)
53. is a fair loser and winner
54. Plays musical instruments (elaborate)
55. participates in (community activity/sports) and elaborate
56. Is aware and will be safe in the following setting (elaborate) and will respond appropriately
57. Can care for the family pet (elaborate)
58. Can act appropriately around a baby or younger child
59. Enjoys working independently or in groups
60. is persistent in carrying out assignments or activities
61. Keeps a personal diary or journal
62. Understands sarcasm, enjoys telling jokes
63. Possesses a sense of personal responsibility
64. Has strong opinions about controversial topics and is able to verbalize them
65. Marches to the beat of a different drummer
66. Handles stressful events well (e.g. is resilient)
67. Has good character (e.g. honesty, integrity, fairness)
68. Is able to plan for the future, describe future goals
69. Displays good common sense and decision making
70. Explains ideas or concepts well to others
71. Asks relevant questions
72. Has good listening skills, without interrupting
73. Handles verbal feedback well
74. Is able to effectively use non-verbal cues to communicate with others
75. persuasive in getting someone to do something
76. assertive skills without being pushy
77. optimistic attitude
78. can express how he/she is feeling
79. Can easily pick up on the emotional state of another person
80. Enjoys socializing with others
81. Has at least one good friend
82. polite and has good manners
83. able to work out his/her own conflicts with others
84. Volunteers his/her time
85. friendly to others
86. good at sharing with others
87. good personal hygiene
88. Trusts others without being naïve
89. liked by his peers
90. good organizational skills
91. good study skills
92. able to pay close attention to details
93. good short-term and/or long-term memory
94. able to become totally absorbed in an activity
95. Has traveled to other countries
96. tolerant of others who have cultural, ethnic, or racial differences
97. pride in his/her own cultural, ethnic, or racial background
98. Likes to find out about historical events around the world
99. Enjoys learning about different cultural traditions
100. Enjoys reading books
101. Has good reading comprehension
102. Enjoys doing word puzzles
103. a good writer in one or more genres
104. good speller
105. large vocabulary for his/her age
106. Enjoys listening to audiobooks or to someone telling a story or reading out loud
107. Has a chemistry set or other science kit that he/she works with at home
108. Enjoys logical or number games or puzzles like Rubik’s cube or Sudoku
109. aptitude for fixing machines or mechanical things
110. Likes to create three-dimensional structures with building materials
111. good at doing jigsaw or other puzzles
112. able to read maps well
113. able to visualize images clearly, can describe
114. Gets information more easily through pictures than words
115. sensitive to the visual world around him/her, can express verbally and respond appropriately
116. good handwriting
117. good eye-hand coordination
118. enjoys hiking and/or camping in nature
119. Likes to spend time using a computer, tablet, or smartphone
120. uses the internet appropriately for school and entertainment
121. Knows how to set up audio-visual or computer equipment
122. Likes to text on the phone
123. Enjoys social networking (e.g. blog, website, Facebook); uses appropriately
124. Has several his/her own favorite movies or TV shows that he/she likes to talk about and can do so without manipulating the conversation
125. Loves learning new things; will seek out knowledge
126. good test taker
127. loves to run

Behavioral Strengths of a Child

1. Resilience: Some children display remarkable resilience, bouncing back from setbacks, disappointments, or challenges with a positive attitude. They can adapt to changes and overcome obstacles effectively.
2. Empathy: Empathetic children are sensitive to the feelings and needs of others. They show compassion, understanding, and kindness towards their peers, family members, and even strangers.
3. Curiosity: Curiosity is a powerful motivator for learning and exploration. Children who are naturally curious ask questions, seek answers, and eagerly explore their surroundings, which can lead to a deeper understanding of the world around them.
4. Creativity: Creative children often have vivid imaginations and enjoy expressing themselves through various forms of art, storytelling, or problem-solving. They can think outside the box, come up with innovative ideas, and find unconventional solutions to challenges.
5. Self-regulation: Children who possess strong self-regulation skills can manage their emotions, impulses, and behaviors effectively. They demonstrate patience, self-control, and the ability to delay gratification, which are crucial for success in various aspects of life.
6. Independence: Independent children are confident in their abilities and feel comfortable taking initiative and responsibility for their actions. They can make decisions, solve problems, and complete tasks autonomously, with minimal guidance or supervision.
7. Persistence: Persistence is the ability to stay focused and persevere in the face of difficulties or setbacks. Children who demonstrate persistence are determined and tenacious, refusing to give up easily when faced with challenges or obstacles.
8. Cooperation: Cooperative children enjoy working collaboratively with others towards a common goal. They are good team players, communicate effectively, and are willing to compromise and negotiate to achieve mutual benefits.
9. Responsibility: Responsible children take ownership of their actions and obligations. They can be relied upon to fulfill their duties, follow rules, and contribute positively to their family, school, or community.
10. Adaptability: Children who are adaptable can adjust to new situations, environments, or expectations with ease. They are flexible, open-minded, and can navigate changes or transitions smoothly.

These behavioral strengths contribute to children’s overall development and well-being, enabling them to build positive relationships, succeed academically, and thrive in various life situations.

Cognitive Skills or Strengths

In this area, I would include skills such as processing, communication, reasoning, and attention.

Language and Literacy Strengths

1. Has effective communication and uses it
2. Participates in discussions at home, at school, and with friends; non-speakers can follow along with discussions
3. Tells stories that have a clear beginning, middle, and end
4. Uses lots of words and likes learning new words
5. Can answer “who,” “what,” “when,” “where,” “why,” and “how” questions in conversation (or about a story)
6. Understands jokes, puns, and sarcasm
7. Understands the structure of sounds; can do tasks like rhyme
8. Can sound out unfamiliar words
9. Easily recognizes sight words
10. Can remember details and retell stories after reading them
11. Can make predictions based on what’s happened so far in a story
12. Reads with expression, like the way an actor talks on TV shows
13. Makes connections between reading material and personal experiences

Academic Skills or Strengths

Reading skills, writing skills, math or science skills, preferred subject area excellence, or study habits.

1. Strong study skills
2. Strong analytical skills
3. High levels of motivation
4. Good communication skills
5. Ability to think critically
6. Strong problem-solving skills
7. Quick learning ability
8. Ability to focus and concentrate for extended periods
9. Strong research skills
10. Ability to work independently
11. Strong mathematical skills
12. Excellent note-taking abilities
13. Strong academic curiosity
14. Good listening skills and processing skills
15. Ability to interpret and analyze data and information.
16. Has a strong number sense, like knowing which is larger and which is smaller
17. Sees and understands patterns in nature and in numbers
18. Remembers math facts
19. Can do mental math
20. Uses math concepts in the real world
21. Understands math terms used in word problems
22. Solves puzzles or word problems

Emotional Strengths of a Child

Children can exhibit a wide range of emotional strengths, including:

1. Resilience: The ability to bounce back from setbacks or adversity.
2. Empathy: Understanding and sharing the feelings of others.
3. Optimism: Having a positive outlook on life and future possibilities.
4. Adaptability: Being flexible and able to adjust to new situations or changes.
5. Courage: Facing challenges or fears with bravery and determination.
6. Perseverance: The ability to keep going even when faced with obstacles or difficulties.
7. Self-awareness: Recognizing and understanding one’s own emotions and how they impact behavior.
8. Emotional regulation: Managing and expressing emotions in healthy and appropriate ways.
9. Social skills: Building and maintaining positive relationships with peers and adults.
10. Confidence: Believing in oneself and one’s abilities.

Social Emotional Skill Strengths

1. Shares, takes turns, and can compromise
2. Puts effort into making friends and keeping them
3. Is a good listener
4. Accepts differences in others
5. Asks for help when needed
6. Accepts personal responsibility for actions (good and bad)
7. Can apologize when needed
8. Has a good sense of humor
9. Is a good winner and loser
10. Self Awareness
11. Self-regulation skills

Executive Functioning and Processing Strengths

Sure, lots of kids struggle in this area, but many excel. Examples of good executive functioning skills would be the ability to stay focused/on tasks, organizational skills, time management, locker and backpack organization, and planning.

1. Working Memory Skills:  Working memory is for both long-term and short-term memory. It’s the ability to recall knowledge and use it appropriately. A child with a great memory is often able to remember instructions, people’s names, and previous learning experiences easily. This child may do well in school and remember content for tests easily. A child with strong short-term memory skills is often able to remember things for a short period of time, such as a list of items or a set of instructions.
2. Sustained attention:  A child who can sustain their attention is able to focus on a task for a long period of time.
3. Selective attention:  A child with selective attention skills is able to filter out distractions and focus on one task.
4. Joint and Divided attention:  A child who is able to divide their attention is able to focus on two tasks at the same time. Joint attention is the ability to attend to what you’re told, with another person. Such as, if you are reading a book to your child, are they looking and reading along with you?
5. Logic skills:  A child with strong logic skills is often able to see the connections between things. It’s the ability to connect the dots, as they say.
6. Reasoning:  A child who is good at reasoning is often able to understand and think through complex problems.
7. Visual processing: A child with strong visual processing skills is often able to easily understand and remember information that is presented visually.
8. Auditory processing: A child with strong auditory processing skills is often able to easily understand and remember information that is presented verbally.
9. Processing speed:  A child with fast processing speed is often able to quickly understand, complete tasks, and remember new information.
10. Critical Thinking:   A child who is good at critical thinking is often able to see different sides of an issue and make logical decisions.

Character Strengths in a Child

Here are some “character strengths” that I found on another site, and my commentary behind them.

One thing you can always remember when evaluating a child’s strength or weaknesses, ask yourself: Is this a “can’t” do the thing, or a “won’t” do the thing. Won’t assumes willful refusal to do something. More often than not, with kids, it’s a “can’t” do the thing.

1. Is honest and trustworthy (already addressed this above)
2. Is caring, kind, and empathetic (it’s very rare to find a child who truly does not care or empathize with others; they often lack the traditional ways to show it)
3. Helps others (do they have the skill sets to help others, to explain things, and be of assistance?)
4. Shows loyalty (I don’t even know what this means, for students, loyal? really?)
5. Works hard (IEP/504 students are some of the most hardworking students ever; they have to work twice as hard to get half as far; are you judging them based on the progress they’ve made, and is that really fair?)
6. Is resilient (again, disabled students have to put up with much more than non disabled students)
7. Shows independence (seriously? the ability to be independent is a character trait, for a disabled person?)
8. Cooperates (an ableist society tells us that the disabled child must always concede to the abled child; rarely is the abled child thought of as ‘non-cooperative’ if he/she does not want to go along with the disabled child)

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Strengths as a Student

Good luck to you and your kids! Stay strong and keep growing!