Acquaintance vs Friendship: Understanding and Teaching the Differences to Kids
Friendship vs. Acquaintance: Acquaintances are people someone knows but does not have a close relationship with, while friends are people with whom someone has a…
Author: Lisa Lightner
I'm an IEP/Special Education Advocate who has attended 100s of IEP meetings. I live in Chester County, PA with my husband and two boys, one is disabled. My goal is to make your IEP process easier. When I'm not here, I'm probably in Harrisburg or DC lobbying for systems change for our kids.
Hyperfixation: Understanding and Coping with Intense, Focused Obsessions
Hyperfixation Key Takeaways: Hyperfixation is an intense state of concentration on a particular object, activity, or topic. It can be positive or negative, depending on…
Anniversary of IDEA 1975 | Advocating for Full Funding of IDEA
On November 29, 1975, President Gerald Ford signed IDEA 1975 into law. Before IDEA 1975 took effect, only 20% of children with disabilities were in…
35 Easy, Last-Minute Elf on the Shelf Ideas (with pictures)
You’re in bed and you think “I forgot to move the elf!” No worries, here are 50 super simple last-minute Elf on the Shelf Ideas, with photos. And no props!
ESES, Status Epilepticus, and Other Things I Wish I Knew about Epilepsy.
I’ve been having some real “beat myself up” moments about Kevin and his risk for seizures. Things I should have known or could have known….
25 Best Gifts that Autistic and Disabled Teenagers and Adults Actually Want
Gift Ideas: While this list of gifts applies to many people, it was specifically crowdsourced for families looking for: gifts for autistic adults, gifts for…
Choosing IEP Goals: Who Gets to Decide?
Inside: Parents often disagree with their IEP teams when it comes to choosing IEP goals. Who gets to decide what goal goes on an IEP?…
10 Free Spot the Difference Printable Worksheets | PDF
We love spot the difference worksheets. My whole extended family is really into worksheets and puzzles. They’re great when you need to take a screen…
25 IEP Homework Accommodations for Parents and Teachers to Implement
Inside: Homework. Just saying the word elicits a lot of feelings. Here are some IEP Accommodations for Homework, including common questions and tips for implementation….
30 Measurable Handwriting IEP Goals, including OT, Fine Motor, and Letter Formation
IEP Goals for Handwriting | Handwriting issues can be much more than a fine motor planning issue. It could be dysgraphia, dyslexia, vision issues, or something else entirely.
Free IEP Goal Bank with 1000+ Measurable IEP Goals and Objectives separated by Domain
The Ultimate IEP Goal Bank! A free list of IEP Goals and IEP Objectives separated by category or area of need; includes a PDF of IEP goals.
25 Nature Sensory Activities (Free PDF List)
Inside: Free Printable PDF List of Nature Sensory Activities for all ages. Print, use and adapt these fun sensory activities in nature for any ability….
How to Dye Rice (Rainbow Rice Sensory Activity)
Inside: How to Dye Rice or Make Rainbow Rice, with all supplies from Dollar Tree. Add color to your sensory bin or sensory play with…
Common Chores that Build Life Skills: 25 Examples
Use this list of teen life skills to see where your child is, and what they need to work on before going on to college or living independently.
Free Printable Chore Chart for Kids that is Skills-Based, not Age-Based.
Inside: Most chore charts and lists of chores for kids are age-based. But, that doesn’t take into account disabilities or other issues that would have…
5 Times when Parents MUST Write to their IEP Team.
Inside: There are 5 times during the IEP process that are conducive to ‘extra’ parent participation. Learn what they are and how to use them…
Understanding the IDEA Stay Put Provision, for Parents.
Inside: Discover IDEA ‘stay put’ rights. Ensure your child’s current special education placement remains during disputes. Learn more about this important IDEA provision. I find…
How to Have Meaningful Parent Participation in the IEP Process (IDEA Parent Participation)
Nothing disappoints me more than when I hear about a parent not learning the IEP process and maximizing their rights in the process. Look, I’m…
Private Schools and IEPs: Are Private Schools Required to Follow an IEP?
Inside: Private schools can provide special education but are not required to provide FAPE. It gets complicated, so read on to fully understand your rights…
28 Free Halloween Coloring Pages: Spooky Fun for Kids and Adults Alike
Halloween is a fun and exciting holiday for children and adults alike. One of the most popular activities during this time of year is coloring…
Free Halloween Printables (Kids Activities)
We didn’t even have home computers or printables when I was a kid (leaning on my cane and pointing my crooked finger at you!). For…
Your Spooky Season Guide: The Ultimate Halloween Movies List
Are you ready to get into the spooky spirit of Halloween? Look no further than our Halloween Movie Bucket List! Whether you’re a horror aficionado…
Fall Sensory Bin Ideas (from Dollar Tree!)
I have a fun and cheap sensory activity perfect for the crisp and colorful autumn days. If there’s one thing I love, it’s finding creative…
Talking about Israel and Palestine with Autistic and Learning Disabled Individuals
Here are some resources for parents, teachers, clinicians, and others who need to talk about Israel with children who are autistic, intellectually disabled, or need…
Glass Children: The Challenges Faced by Well-Behaved Kids with Disabled Siblings
My kids are about 2-and-a-half years apart in age. My youngest is my non-disabled child. He’s creative and smart and funny and athletic. I find…
Working Memory and Auditory Memory: IEP Goals and Accommodations
Does your child struggle with Working Memory issues, and you want them added to the IEP? Have you heard parents talk about working memory skills,…
Word and Picture Matching: How to Improve this Essential Skill
Matching is a skill that many take for granted. And picture matching or word to picture matching, are both executive functioning skills. And, I hear…
10 Best Visual Timers for Kids for Home or Classroom
Does your child benefit from a visual reinforcer? Then take a look at these online and other visual timers for kids who have sensory needs.
Fantasy Football for Kids | Fun and Important Skills Learned
Inside: Cultivate young football fans’ love for the game with a kid-friendly fantasy football league! Discover 5 creative ways to simplify and customize the league…
Uncovering the Hidden Link: How Speech and Language Disorders Connect to Juvenile Confinement
00:02:30 Youth facing adult charges, reviewing records and assessing language and cognition to align with charges. Discussing impact of disorder on ability to meet elements.00:05:19…
Beyond Checkers and Candyland: 8 Unusual and Educational Board Games for Older Kids
Inside: Everyone loves a good board game. Here is a list of the 8 educational board games that are a little unusual–beyond checkers or Monopoly….
Inference IEP Goals and Objectives | Examples of Inference
“Mommy, is that Lady Gaga?” When my youngest was a toddler, he LOVED Lady Gaga. I have no idea why or where it came from,…
Why “Gotcha!” is not an Effective IEP Advocacy Strategy.
Inside: When parents catch the school or IEP team making a big blunder, they often mistakenly think that this “gotcha!” will lead to IEP meeting…
The Role of Executive Functioning in Learning: Unveiling Strategies with Tera Sumpter, SLP
Wow! What a discussion we had about Executive Functioning today! Even if you do not have time today, I am urging you to come back…
Understanding Teen Grunts: When to Intervene and When to Let Normal Behavior Be
Elliott Jaffa is a child psychologist who emphasizes the importance of catching children being good. He believes that instead of asking the generic “How was…
8 Unique and Easy Christmas Letter Ideas
The holiday season is here, and it’s time to start thinking about your annual Christmas letter. While sending a holiday letter is a great way…
IEP Meaning: What is an IEP? And does your child need one?
Inside: Inside: Learning the meaning of IEP and what having an IEP means for your child. For as much time as I spent talking and…
What is Pathological Demand Avoidance?
Pathological demand avoidance in autism explained Pathological demand avoidance (PDA) is a contentious term. Over the past 40 years, some clinicians have used it to…
IEP Progress Monitoring: A Guide for Parents and Teachers | Examples
IEP Progress Monitoring and IEP Data Collection are among the most important things about an IEP. And yet tracking IEP goals is one area that…
How to Write an IEP
How to Write an IEP for Special Education, step by step.
How to Easily Collect Meaningful IEP Data | Free IEP Data Collection Sheets
Inside: Collecting IEP Data doesn’t have to be overwhelming. You can get our free IEP Data Collection Sheets, including templates and reusable forms. A few…
Breaking Down Barriers: Janice Lloyd Discusses Remediation and Support for Dyslexic Students
00:02:48 The text discusses the challenges of large class sizes in schools and the impact on providing individualized instruction for struggling students.00:07:19 Many tests…
Masking and Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA): A Closer Look with Dr. Jessica Myszak
I recently had the opportunity to interview Dr. Jessica Myszak about Autism Masking and PDA or Pathological Demand Avoidance. If your family is experiencing either…
The Impact of Socialization in the Digital Age: FaceTime vs. In-Person Interaction with Dr. Stephanie Fields
Dr. Stephanie Fields is a highly qualified psychologist with expertise in family therapy. She recently shifted her focus towards parent coaching, a specialized approach that solves…
How to Calm Yourself Down: 5 Activities for Any Environment
It’s really no wonder that mental health issues are on the rise. We’re really in a bad spot–the economy isn’t working for anyone besides the…
What is Respite (definition)? (and how to find it!)
If I’m being honest, I’m not at all comfortable talking about respite care. If I accept my son for who he is, and am trying…
Triangle Breathing: A Simple Stress Relief Technique for All Ages (free worksheet!)
Star breathing. 5 finger breathing. There are many different options that we have to either take a brain break or if we are trying to…
9 Math Problem Solving IEP Goals | Examples and Criteria
When a child has math skills and can apply them to every day life, it can be something we take for granted. Many of us…
What is Supported Decision Making: Empowering Individuals with Disabilities (sample agreement)
Largely in part due to the news surrounding Britney Spears, guardianship, conservatorship and other types of legal arrangements are getting more publicity. It’s a really…
5 Best Places to Eat with Kids in Atlantic City (and the 5 Worst!)
Atlantic City is a destination that has something for everyone, including families with kids. While there are plenty of casinos and nightlife options, there are…
Family Friendly Atlantic City: 8 Top Things to Do in Atlantic City with Kids
Atlantic City may be known for its casinos and nightlife, but it’s also a great destination for families with children. There are numerous activities and…
Atlantic City Indoor Waterpark at Showboat: What to Know Before You Go
I’ve been taking my kids to the Atlantic City Airshow for over a decade. Usually, we just get up early and go down for the…
Locomotion Skills and Motor Planning: What’s the Difference?
Inside: Learn the differences between Locomotion Skills and Motor Planning, and how a child can improve both. Includes examples of locomotion skills and motor planning…
High School Certificate of Completion vs Diploma: Understanding the Differences.
If your child has an IEP, and is taking a life skills type of curriculum, you may have heard the term “certificate of completion” mentioned…
What is SDC in Special Education? A Simple Guide to Special Day Class, for Parents.
This is one area that I’m not often comfortable discussing–restrictive environments in the special education setting. See, I have K in a very restrictive setting….
IFSP: Understanding Individualized Family Service Plans | IDEA Part C
Inside: If your disabled child is in the 0-3 age range, you may have some questions about IDEA part C and Early Intervention Services. Here’s…
Best Tips for Visiting the Bryce and Zion National Parks with Kids
Planning a trip out West to visit the national parks with kids? It can be an overwhelming feat but these tips will help you plan…
What to Do in NYC with Kids
Planning a family trip to New York City? From museums and parks to the Staten Island Ferry, you won’t want to miss these things to…
Sensory Bottles DIY: How to Make Sensory Bottles
Inside: Some great sensory bottle ideas, how to make a sensory bottle or sensory bottles DIY, plus the many great benefits of sensory bottles. Sensory…
Easy Homemade Playdough Recipe: How to Make Playdough
Inside: This easy to make homemade playdough recipe uses ingredients you probably already have in the kitchen. Plus, some activities to do with your playdough…
DIY Stress Balls: Learn How to Make Stress Balls in 5 Easy Steps!
Stress balls are a simple yet effective way to reduce tension and anxiety. They are small enough to carry in a purse or pocket, making…
List of IEP Goals for ADHD
For a long time, as I worked with clients, we fought the battle to get a child an IEP for ADHD rather than just the…
List of 504 Accommodations for ADHD (Including a PDF)
It is estimated that 5-12% of all American kids have some type of ADHD. If you found this Accommodations Guide, chances are you have a…
12 Free ‘All About Me’ Worksheets and Templates
Inside: Learn how to make a really cool All About Me Worksheet for any age group, including teens and adults. Or, print off some of…
101 Halloween Words and Vocab + Free Word Search PDF
Inside: Learning in school during holiday seasons can be hard for kids! Mesh the two together–reading and vocabulary paired with Halloween Words. Plus a Halloween…
Positive Self Talk: 10 Free Worksheets for Kids and Adults
Positive self-talk is an essential aspect of self-improvement and personal growth that has recently gained popularity. It is the practice of intentionally speaking to oneself…
What is Presume Competence? (and How to Get Your IEP Team on Board!)
Presumed competence, in my experience, is a term that gets a lot of buzz. But not a lot of traction, certainly not in IEP meetings….
Do Chair Bands for ADHD work?
One of the less positive things about my job as an IEP advocate is that, I am so often surprised and disappointed at what some…
IEP Re-Evaluations: Timeline, Process, Checklist
Ok, so here we go. I used to have IEP reevaluation information in my post about IEP evaluations. But, I’ve since decided that IEP re-evaluations…
Autism Incontinence: Causes, Symptoms, and Treatment Options
Inside: We’re talking causes and solutions to your autistic family member and their incontinence. We want our kids to have dignity and reduce bullying whenever…
How to get an IEP for your Child (Explained by a Parent IEP Advocate)
Inside: How to Get an IEP for your Child. Whether you’re trying to get an IEP for autism, get an IEP for ADHD or even…
The Best Place to Watch the Atlantic City Airshow, including Practice Day
Inside: We love the Atlantic City Air Show! So I’m sharing my best tips on where to watch the Atlantic City Air Show and much…
15 Affordable Calm Down Corner Ideas for School or Home
Inside: Calm Down Corners are growing in popularity. So, I’ve compiled a list of Calm Down Corner Ideas for you to create one in a…
10 Differences Between IEP and 504 Plan (and what is the same!)
Inside: Learn the key differences between a 504 and an IEP, so you can make the right decision for your child. Quite often, parents in…
Can a School Ask for Medical Information? Can IEP Teams Force Medication?
Inside: Many schools ask for or demand medical information. Can they do that? Can they require an IEP student to be medicated? We’re answering all…
4 Best Homeschool Curriculums for ADHD and Autism
Inside: For some families, homeschooling their child with ADHD or Autism is the best option for them. Here are some curriculum options for kids who…
6 Replacement Behaviors for Hitting and Aggression
Inside: Hitting and Aggression are fast ways for your child to earn suspensions at school, or be socially ostracized by peers. Here are some replacement…
Educational Autism vs Medical Autism: What’s the Difference?
Inside: What’s the difference between educational autism vs medical autism? Is autism a medical diagnosis? Can schools diagnose autism? Answering all of that and more….
Is Lindamood Bell Worth the Money?
Inside: Many parents consider paying for Lindamood Bell programs to help their kids read. But, is it worth the money? Several years ago, my cousins…
What Matters More–IEP Goals or IEP Grades?
I was in a heated IEP meeting one time, and a teacher angrily blurted out, “What do you want from me? Do you want me…
39 Behavior Goals for an IEP including Adaptive Behavior and Adaptive Skills
If your child has negative behaviors at school, they should receive an FBA and a Behavior Plan. Here are behavior goal ideas for your IEP.
Suspensions, IEPs and Manifestation Determination Meetings, for Parents.
Inside: A Manifestation Determination Meeting is one of the most stressful parts of the IEP process. Hopefully you never have to do this. But, here’s…
What is a Communication Board? A Guide to Improving Communication for Non-Speaking People
Inside: Everything you need to know about communication boards for non-verbal or non-speaking children or adults. Including how to get started with a communication board….
Why Are IEPs Important?
Inside: I hear from many parents who “don’t even want to bother” with an IEP. It’s a sentiment I understand, but you may want to…
How to Not Cry at your IEP Meeting.
Is it any wonder that Moms cry at IEP Meetings? Pretend I’ve invited you to your child’s school for a meeting. And this meeting will…
Is Universal Design for Learning an Inclusive Approach to Education?
Inside: Learn what Universal Design for Learning is and how it might help your child with an IEP. What is Universal Design for Learning? Just…
What to Wear to a Parent Teacher Conference or IEP Meeting.
Inside: They shouldn’t, but appearances matter. Here are tips for what to wear to a Parent Teacher conference or IEP meeting. It matters. I wish…
What is Differentiated Instruction?
Inside: Differentiated Instruction is a term that gets a lot of buzz these days. But, while differentiating instruction has a lot of value, it further…
Can an IEP Meeting be Held without a Parent?
Inside: Can an IEP meeting be held without parents? What does IDEA say about this, and what should you do if the IEP team is…
Are You Neglecting Your Child’s Role in an IEP Meeting?
Inside: Learn the child’s role at an IEP meeting, and why they should work toward full participation and even running their IEP meeting. Should my…
What to Expect at Your IEP Meeting
Inside: Your first IEP meeting, or even your 10th IEP meeting, can be stressful and scary. Here is what to expect at an IEP meeting….
How to Get an Out-of-District Placement (IEP and Special Education)
Inside: You feel that your child’s needs cannot be met in your local school. You want an out of district placement, so how do you…
How Long Does the School Have to Respond to an IEP Meeting Request? What about an Emergency?
Inside: How long does the school have to respond to an IEP meeting request? And, what are the guidelines for an emergency IEP meeting? All…
Wrong Placement? Special Education Placement, explained by a Parent Advocate.
Inside: Do you feel that your child is in the wrong placement? Parents often misunderstand special education placement and out of district placements. So, I’m…
How Long is an IEP Meeting?
Inside: How long do IEP meetings last? And what should you do if you feel your IEP meeting is too short or too long? Sharing…
Myths, Facts and Letter Templates about How to Request an IEP Meeting
Inside: Answering all your questions about how to request an IEP meeting. Includes letter templates, emergency IEP meeting information (only in California!) and who can…
Should I Bring Food or Donuts to an IEP Meeting?
Inside: Challenging that old urban legend that parents should bring donuts to IEP meetings. I understand you want to be nice. You want to be…
After the IEP Meeting: What Happens Next?
Inside: After the IEP meeting, here is what to expect. Including the after IEP meeting email, and when you should receive the final IEP. It…
IEP Meeting Agenda: Samples and Templates for a Productive Meeting
Inside: It’s best practice, but not required, to have an IEP Meeting Agenda. Here are some samples and templates for IEP Meeting Agendas for you…
10 Free Apps for Emotion Regulation and Social Interactions
Did you know that there are apps that can help your child rehearse for social situations? Or help them learn to regulate their emotions? There…
19 Top-Rated Speech Therapy Apps for Kids
Speech Therapy Apps Ever since iPads and devices came on to the scene about a decade ago, our kids have been benefiting from apps. If…
10 Free Text to Speech Apps (and Voice to Text)
The past few years have had our kids accessing technology more than ever before. Even those who didn’t previously use Assistive Technology now find themselves…
12 Best Free Math Apps for Kids
With so many more kids learning at home or on a hybrid program, I am finding more parents frustrated at math. It’s just not taught…
20 Free Apps for Executive Functioning Skill Deficits (adults and students)
After preparing this blog post, I plan to go back to the Google Play store and get some of these apps for myself. I can…
What is Due Process? (Due Process Hearings in Special Education)
Inside: Learn what Special Education Due Process is, how to initiate the process and many important points to consider before filing for Due Process in…
The IEP Meeting Secret that Schools Don’t Want You to Know.
Inside: Learn my #1 advocacy secret to reducing IEP meeting stress. I was waiting in the lobby. Mom pulled into the parking lot, made her…
Interview with Ariadne Wolf, NeuroDisabled Support Specialist
Today I had such a great podcast recording session! I’d like to introduce you to Ariadne Wolf, a NeuroDisabled Support Specialist. You can read more…
What is Perseveration and How to Get ‘Unstuck’ When Perseverating on Something
Inside: Learn what perseveration is, what causes it, and how to get unstuck if you are perseverating on something. Plus, IEP goals if a child…
50 Kindergarten IEP Goals including Reading, Writing and Math
Inside: Our list of kindergarten IEP goals including kindergarten math IEP goals, kindergarten reading and writing goals and more. So, there’s a reason why I…
Simon Says Game: Ideas and Variations on a Classic Game for Developing Listening Skills
Inside: The Simon Says Game has really changed. Here are some Simon Says Ideas and variations, plus the online Simon Says Game. You all remember…
21 Fun Classroom Games for All Ages (no prep work!)
Inside: Learn the many skills that children can learn and practice by playing games; plus a list of some fun classroom games for students, with…
55 Functional Money and Math IEP Goals including Modern Money Skills
Inside: A list of Functional Money and Functional Math IEP goals, including modern money skills like apps and debit cards. Remember when we were little,…
9 Clever (and Fun!) Summer Camp Themes
Inside: Browse my list of clever and fun summer camp ideas for kids. These summer camp themes can be implemented at home, or at a…
The 40 Coolest Shark Activities for Kids and Adults
Do you love Shark Week? We do! My husband says that the newer Shark Weeks aren’t as good as the older ones, but my kids…
Anxiety and Summer Camp: Set Your Child Up for Success
Summer is here and for many kids, that may mean sleep away camp or sleepovers at a friend’s or grandparent’s house. But what about the…
How Long Does Sunscreen Last? Does it Expire? Mineral vs Chemical
Inside: Everything you need to know about sunscreen to be safe this summer. The differences between chemical vs mineral sunscreen, sunscreen expiration information and how…
What is the Star Breathing Technique for Kids?
Star breathing is a simple yet effective breathing exercise that can help reduce stress and anxiety. I have another article and PDF printable for 5…
What is the 5 Finger Breathing Technique to Calm Kids?
Have you heard of the Five Finger Breathing Technique? It’s a fantastic mindfulness exercise for both kids and adults. I love it! Perhaps the best…
Understanding and Treating Cellulitis from Bug Bites (photos)
Inside: Learn what cellulitis is and how harmful it can be. Plus, how bug bites can lead to cellulitis and treatment and prevention options. Can…
Which One of These 10 Common Parent IEP Mistakes will You Make?
Inside: Learn what 10 common IEP parent mistakes are, and how you can avoid them. Raise your hand if you just LOVE going to IEP…
14 Letter Recognition Goals (for OT and IEP)
Inside: Learn what Letter Recognition OT goals are, why they’re important, and a list of example goals. It’s a familiar sight, dating back many decades….
What is Phonemic Awareness? 8 IEP Goals and Strategies
Inside: Learn what phonemic awareness is and how to assess for it. Plus some IEP goals for Phonemic Awareness. The other day, my 13-year-old sports…
Yes, an IEP Meeting Should be Held at a Time Convenient for Parents.
Inside: Learn the IDEA wording about scheduling IEP meetings and parental participation. Whew, can we please put this issue to bed, once and for all?…
What IEP Parents Should Know about Orton Gillingham (and IEP goals!)
Inside: Learn what Orton Gillingham is, how it helps kids learn to read, and I’m answering important questions about OG IEP Goals. (yikes!) If your…
Why I Want to be Alone on Mothers’ Day
I was doing dinner tonight. K requires special meals, and that’s ok, I’m used to it. But as I picked up the 8 billionth morsel…
Where to See Fireworks in Chester County, Delaware and Philadelphia
Happy Summer! I know it’s early to be talking about July 4 fireworks, but some municipalities do them as early as Memorial Day weekend. I…
13 Free Summer Reading Programs For Kids
Inside: Browse our list of free summer reading programs for kids, including how to sign up. Ah summer. I’m already daydreaming about it. But, as…
Individualized Education Programs (IEPs) for Autism: Goal Bank, Sample PDF
Inside: Learn how to build a robust, meaningful Autism IEP, including goals, accommodations and even a sample. For almost 10 years, readers have been asking…
7 Things you Never Want to Hear at an IEP Meeting.
You’re sitting in your IEP meeting. Things seem to be going well. Everyone is pleasant and there’s a constructive conversation. But your gut is telling…
Can Schools Only Offer a Virtual IEP Meeting instead of In Person?
In the first quarter of 2020, we had no idea how much our lives were going to change. Not just for the next couple of…
7 Real-Life Examples of Misogyny at IEP Meetings.
I receive a surprising amount of criticism for catering to women on this blog. Or, writing about them and to them. Sure, much of it…
How to Stay Positive when you Hate Having an IEP
Inside: When you hate having an IEP it can be tough to stay positive. Here are tips for staying positive, even when dealing with unprofessional…
Sign up for Kids Bowl Free
Have you ever participated in Kids Bowl Free? It’s a fantastic program which allows children to bowl for free all summer long at participating bowling…
How to get EEG Glue Out of Hair (painlessly!)
Removing EEG glue from your child’s hair-is there anything worse? I cannot believe that we have the technology to actually do EEGs, but we do…
Can IEPs be Emailed? And 11 Other IEP Email FAQs.
Email. How did we live without it? IEPs are relatively new, not even 50 years old. Obviously, e-mail is even newer. And, as technology changes,…
How to Request an IEP Evaluation: A Step-by-Step Guide
Inside: How to Request an IEP Evaluation and be the best advocate you can be, for your child, during the process. You will definitely want…
25 Free IEP Letter Templates for any IEP Situation
Inside: Get 25 free IEP letter templates, including my e-book “How to Ask your IEP Team for just about Anything.” If you’re in this for…
What is an FBA in Special Education? Is it part of an IEP?
A Parents’ Guide to Functional Behavior Assessments FBAs in Education, Behavior Plans, and more; including how and when to request an FBA.
IEP Testing and Evaluations | What IEP Tests should I ask for? (PDF)
Inside: Learn what IEP testing is, and what IEP tests you should (or could) ask for. Different variations of questions come up about IEP evaluations…
How to Understand IEP Evaluation Results and Prepare for an IEP Eligibility Meeting
Inside: Learn the timelines of the IEP Evaluation Process, including how to interpret some of the IEP assessments and get ready for your IEP eligibility…
Your Child’s Strengths | 127 Student Strength Examples to Swipe for your IEP
Sometimes we get so wrapped up in getting our kids’ needs met, we forget to address a Student’s Strengths. What are your child’s strengths? Grabe these ideas for your IEP.
Practical Solutions for Dealing with Poop Smearing in Children and Adults
One of the most unpleasant parts of parenting is the gross stuff we sometimes have to encounter. A little baby throw-up and dirty diapers–no big…
Free IEP Meeting Checklist (for Parents)
As an advocate, I have attended literally hundreds of IEP meetings. I know you, Moms. You’re stressed and anxious. This IEP meeting checklist is one…
How to Effectively Prepare for an IEP Meeting.
Inside: Learn how to STOP STRESSING out over IEP meetings, and be your child’s best advocate. A Special Education Advocate who has attended hundreds of…
What is an IEP Meeting?
Inside: Learn what an IEP meeting is, and what is the purpose of an IEP meeting. And, how to be your child’s best advocate at…
Visiting Washington DC with Kids: Fun Things to Do and Where to Stay
Planning a trip to Washington, DC with your family? Then these 5 travel tips from a seasoned Mom and Lobbyist are a must-read!
Mental Health and Racism (video)
During the summer of 2020, after the unfortunate incident with George Floyd and his murder, I was motivated to use my platform to try and…
Navigating Adult Disability Services for your Black Young Adult (video)
During the summer of 2020, after the unfortunate incident with George Floyd and his murder, I was motivated to use my platform to try and…
Disability and English Language Learners (video)
During the summer of 2020, after the unfortunate incident with George Floyd and his murder, I was motivated to use my platform to try and…
How the School Disciplinary System Treats Black Children with Disabilities (video)
During the summer of 2020, after the unfortunate incident with George Floyd and his murder, I was motivated to use my platform to try and…
Behaviors and Classifications for Black Students with IEPs (video)
During the summer of 2020, after the unfortunate incident with George Floyd and his murder, I was motivated to use my platform to try and…
System Racism in Diagnostics: Experiences of Black Parents during Evaluations and by Medical Professionals (video)
During the summer of 2020, after the unfortunate incident with George Floyd and his murder, I was motivated to use my platform to try and…
Race Discrimination in IEP Meetings and During IEP Process (video)
During the summer of 2020, after the unfortunate incident with George Floyd and his murder, I was motivated to use my platform to try and…
Black and Autistic (video)
During the summer of 2020, after the unfortunate incident with George Floyd and his murder, I was motivated to use my platform to try and…
12 Tips for Special Education Parent-Teacher Conferences | Video
Parent-Teacher conferences can look different for Special Education and IEP students. Here’s what to ask and what to know.
Anxiety and OCD in Teens with Dr. Chad Brandt (Video)
During 2020 and 2021, when we were all stuck at home, I took the opportunity to engage subject matter experts to do some online chats…
Is the Diana Screening Test Reliable at Catching Sexual Predators?
Is the Diana Screening test reliable or accurate? What do the science and data say? The answers will surprise you.
The Extraordinary Burden of IEPs on Moms.
Imagine this, parents. Imagine you are envisioning your child’s future, and the different pieces of his/her future are trading cards. And you say, “Ok, I will give you this card for safety, and in exchange, I get to keep all the cards for food.”
Is People First Language dead? No, but demanding it is.
People first vs. identity-first language, PFL vs IFL. When I was first introduced to the concept of people first language, I was all “Yes! He’s…
Hand Flapping, Stimming, and Autism
No, just because your child flaps their hands does not mean they are autistic. And, even if it did, we need to stop treating autism like it’s some terrible thing.
Combatting April’s Harmful Stereotypes: Addressing Autism Ableism
Inside: It’s April, so we’re going to be bombarded with Autism Awareness. Here are some awful examples of autism ableism that are a part of…
Ableism and Autism Moms
I am just steamed this morning. Nothing like waking up to see 250k special needs moms being ableists and wallowing in ableism. Have you seen…
What is Prompt Hierarchy? (and its many flaws!)
Prompt hierarchy is a teaching technique that involves providing prompts to help students learn new skills. Its flaws include over-dependence on prompts and limited generalization of skills.
What are Locomotor Skills and How to Improve them for Your Child
Locomotor skills are essential for physical activity and movement. Discover how mastering these skills can benefit children’s physical and cognitive development.
Autism Prevalence in 2023: Latest Statistics and Trends
Autism prevalence rises again: one in 36 (2.8%) 8-year-old children have been identified with autism spectrum disorder (ASD), according to a 2023 report.
11 Sample IEP Goals for Focus and Attention (+5 Accommodations)
IEP goals for focus and attention can be tailored to address specific needs of students, such as reducing distractions or increasing sustained attention.
Is “Special Needs” Offensive or Politically Correct? Here’s the new term.
Read thoughts and insight from disabled people on how they feel about being referred to as ‘special needs.’ It’s ok to say “disabled.”
What are the Required Components of an IEP?
Inside: Learn what IDEA says about the required components of an IEP. An Individualized Education Program (IEP) is a written plan that outlines the unique…
10 Affordable and Quiet Fidget Toys for ADHD (pictures)
Inside: Learn the benefits of fidget toys for ADHD adults and others, and some quiet fidget toy recommendations. I recently participated in a local consignment…
What is Accelerated Reader AR? (and why it shouldn’t be used for IEPs)
As a parent I love AR, Accelerated Reader. As an IEP advocate, I think it’s a bad idea for monitoring progress. Pros and Cons of AR Books, Reading Levels.
School Refusal: IEP Goals and Interventions for School Avoidance
What are we doing to our kids that so many of them are either a) having breakdowns and mom has to be called to come get them b) melting down after school to the point it interferes with normal household activities or c) refusing to go to school.
What is Occupational Therapy for Kids?
OT and school-based occupational therapy help students with disabilities develop the skills they need to participate in daily activities at home and school.
Dolch Sight Words: Free PDF Lists and Worksheets
Inside: Learn what Dolch sight words are and if they are still important. Also, get our free PDFs and worksheets for Dolch sight word lists….
What is Task Paralysis? And How to Save Yourself!
Task paralysis is the inability to start or complete tasks, affecting productivity and causing stress. It can be caused by various factors, not just ADHD.
4 Functions of Behavior and your FBA/Behavior Plan
If parents (and teachers!) have a better understanding of the four functions of behavior, the history behind the philosophy, and the many flaws, you can be a better advocate for a child exhibiting behaviors.
What is ADHD Overwhelm and How do you Overcome It?
ADHD overwhelm can be a daily struggle for those affected. Learn about coping strategies, self-care techniques, and seeking support to manage symptoms.
115 Morning Meeting Questions and Ideas for All Ages
From motivational quotes and positive news stories to fun games and brain teasers, we’ve got you covered. Start your day on the right foot with our helpful suggestions.
Slime Recipe: How to Make Slime with Glue
Easy DIY Slime Recipe: How to Make Slime with Glue, this step by step slime recipe and instructions will have your kids having gooey fun in just a few minutes!
15 Cool Easter Basket Ideas for Older Kids
Teens can be hard to buy for, especially at holidays geared for little kids. Here are some Easter Basket Ideas for Older Kids, including egg hunts for older kids.
7 Healthy Eating Habits for Kids
Encouraging healthy eating habits in kids can be challenging, but it’s essential to promote their overall health and well-being.
How to Write Meaningful and Measurable IEP Goals
Inside: Learn how to write effective IEP goals with this step-by-step guide. Discover the formula for writing measurable goals and objectives tailored to your student’s…
19 Work Completion IEP Goals and Examples (Task Completion)
Inside: Discover how setting Work Completion IEP goals can help students with disabilities improve their academic performance and achieve success in school and beyond. Includes…
How to Make a Child Gain Weight (and Add 500 Calories a Day!)
Discover effective ways to help your child gain weight quickly and healthily. From nutrient-dense foods to exercise tips, learn how to support their growth.
What is Shame Spiraling? And How to Stop the Pattern.
Shame spiraling is a distressing experience that can lead to self-criticism and negative self-talk. Learn how to recognize and break the cycle here.
IEP Goals not Met? Proving IEP Goals Were not Developed or Made with Fidelity.
Inside: Learn how to understand and troubleshoot an IEP if the child is repeatedly not meeting IEP goals. And, Proving IEP Goals Were not Developed…
After School Restraint Collapse and How To Get your IEP Team on Board.
The After School Meltdown, we’ve all seen it. Here’s what to know about after school restraint collapse, and getting your IEP team on board to support your child.
What is Time Blindness? (and how to manage it!)
Time Blindness is a phenomenon associated with ADHD, but it is not exclusive to ADHD. Read what it is and how to manage it if you have time blindness.
Can You Have an IEP and a 504?
Learn what an IEP provides and what a 504 provides, and why it’s not a case of “more is better. Your child should not need both.
What is an Executive Functioning Coach and What do they Do?
Learn what an Executive Functioning Coach is, what an EF coach does and how to become an executive function coach. Plus, video tips from an Executive Function Coach.
Is an IEP a Legal Document?
Inside: Yes, an IEP is a legally binding document. Understand the framework and laws behind IEPs and what to do if you have a legal…
What Qualifies a Child for an IEP? How does a Student Qualify for an IEP?
What Qualifies a Child for an IEP? What is an IEP student? Is it only for learning disabilities, and what are they? All explained by a Special Education Advocate.
Discrepancy Model vs RTI Model for IEP Eligibility, Explained.
A discrepancy model may be used to determine IEP eligibility. Some states still use the RTI model. Learn what the difference is and how it applies to your child.
When do IEP Minutes have to be made up?
How do you calculate IEP minutes or IEP service minutes? When do IEP minutes have to be made up? How are IEP minutes determined?
How long is a benchmark goal on an IEP?
How long is a benchmark goal on an IEP? And what is the difference between IEP goal benchmarks and IEP goal objectives?
What is a Paraprofessional or Paraeducator?
What is a Paraprofessional? Understand hiring requirements, salary and what they can offer your child.
How to Get a 1:1 Aide/Para Added to an IEP.
What to know about getting a 1:1 aide or para on your child’s IEP. From what qualifies a child for a 1:1 aide to getting the para on the IEP.
35 Common Special Education Acronyms, Terms, and Glossary (with PDF)
Is your head spinning at IEP meetings because of all the acronyms? Here are some of the most commonly used Disability and Special Education Acronyms. Free printable!
7 Popular AAC Devices for Autism and Communication
AAC devices can be liberating for autistic children and others who lack verbal communication. A list of the best, and how to get an AAC device for your child.
Revolutionizing Accessibility: 100 Low Tech Assistive Technology Solutions for Classrooms
100 Examples of Low Tech Assistive Technology in the classroom; suggestions for reading, writing, autism, dyslexia and much more.
Other Health Impairments: What is OHI on an IEP? (definition + examples)
What is OHI on the IEP? A thorough explanation of the Other Health Impairments eligibility category, including ADHD and its listing under OHI Eligibility.
What is Assistive Technology? 15 IEP Goals for Assistive Technology and AAC
Inside: Take a deep dive into learning about AT Assistive Technology, and how it differs from AAC. And 15 IEP goals for assistive technology.
List of 504 Accommodations for Anxiety
A printable list of Accommodations for Anxiety for an IEP or 504 Plan, to get you on the path to a more peaceful and calm day for your child at school.
Printable List of IEP and 504 Accommodations for Disabled Students
Inside: Browse, print, and use this comprehensive list of 504 Accommodations for Students with Disabilities.
11 Examples of IEP Violations and What to Do Next (IEP Complaint Options)
Uncovering the Two Types of IEP Violations: Are Your Child’s Rights Being Upheld?
Dear IEP Team: Don’t Call Me Mom.
Does your IEP team call you “Mom” at IEP meetings? Are you comfortable with that? Let’s explore the pros and cons to this common gesture, and ways to change it if you wish.
What is a Sensory Bin? 50 Sensory Bin Ideas
Inside: What is a sensory bin? Are there benefits to using sensory bins? What are they used for, and for what ages? Plus, we’re sharing…
25 Amazing Inclusion Books for Kids
A list of children’s books about inclusion, from teachers and parents. Add these inclusive children’s books to your home library.
How to Make Kinetic Sand (just 3 Ingredients!)
In this article, we will explore what kinetic sand is, what it is made of, and what it is used for. And then, I have…
Legal Guardianship for Adults with Disabilities: A Beginner’s Guide
This article provides a comprehensive guide to legal guardianship for adults with disabilities, including the benefits and considerations for families and caregivers. Learn how to navigate the process and ensure the best possible care for your loved one.
Denied an IEP or 504 Because Grades are Good? What To Do When “His Grades Are Fine!”
What to do if you are denied an IEP because “his grades are fine!”
Was Dr. Seuss a Racist? See the drawings and judge for yourself.
Dr. Seuss is a phenomenal author and illustrator. Dr. Seuss has a racist past. Both can be true. Both are true.
504 Plan Accommodations for Juvenile Arthritis
If your child has juvenile arthritis, they may require a 504 plan and 504 accommodations to be successful at school. Here are some juvenile arthritis accommodations.
How to Effectively Communicate with your School IEP Team
Professional, accurate, written communication is essential to the IEP and Special Education Process. Tips to get you on the path to having your concerns heard.
Unlocking the World: 15 Essential Tips for Traveling with a Disabled Child
The Ultimate Guide to Special Needs Travel: Adequately (and safely!) prepare for a vacation when your child has a disability or special needs. This can save you some headaches and hassles!
What is an IEP Team? Who are the required IEP Team Members?
What does IDEA say about required members of an IEP team? And what are their roles and responsibilities? All explained by an Special Education Advocate.
Who Attends an IEP meeting? Can I exclude people?
I have a friend and there are 18 school staff people at her IEP meetings. I’ve mentioned many times before how large Kevin’s IEP team…
50 Math IEP Goals and Objectives (Printable List PDF)
I will never forget this one day when Kevin was a preschooler. We had an IEP meeting, and one of his proposed goals was to…
Autism and Trans: What’s the Correlation?
The largest study to date confirms an overlap between autism and gender diversity People who do not identify with the sex they were assigned at…
25 Disability Awareness Activities for Kids of all Ages
Activities to Teach About Disabilities What better day than today to publish this post! Today is the first day of Developmental Disabilities Awareness month. I…
48 Social Skills IEP Goals for all Ages, including Objectives.
Social Skills IEP Goals It’s no secret that many kids with disabilities struggle socially and struggle to build and maintain friendships. When Brian tells me…
What to Do When the School Wants to Remove IEP Services
Can the School Remove Supports and Services from the IEP? This is probably the number one reason that parents dread IEP meetings. Right? For the…
Weighted Blanket Causing Back Pain? It Probably Is.
Weighted Blanket Causing Pain Weighted blankets. They seem harmless enough, right? So we started using them. I purchased two for our household. In less than…
School and IEP Retaliation: The Shocking Truth About Schools’ Dark Side.
When Your School Calls CPS Sometimes I hear the stories and think “How, how did we get here?” And, many times I’ve seen a parent…
Learn Numbers in Sign Language: Free ASL Numbers Printable
Learning numbers in ASL is one of the easiest ways to get started in learning ASL. Free worksheets for numbers 1-10 in ASL, coloring pages, free PDF.
ASL Colors: Learn Sign Language for Different Colors (free PDF)
Colors in ASL If you are trying to learn sign language, learning clusters or groups of words is a great way to start. Many people…
Sign Language Animals: Learn ASL Animals with this Free Printable
Sign Language Animals This past year, my son went through a full Assistive Technology evaluation. One of the two modalities that we are going to…
The Sign Language Alphabet: Free Downloads for Beginner Fingerspelling
Learning the ASL Alphabet is a quick way to get started in sign language and fingerspelling.
Free Printable Football Bingo Cards with Rules
Football Bingo Are you planning a Super Bowl party or another football-themed event? Looking for some free football bingo cards to print? Well, welcome! This…
50 Common Sign Language Words: How to Say Hello and Thank You in Sign Language
Free Sign Language Flashcards for 25 Basic Sign Language Words in ASL. Get this free PDF download and begin learning sign language today.
How to Say Happy Valentine’s Day in Sign Language
What a cute idea! Valentine’s Day cards in ASL. Did you know that ASL is the 4th most used language in the United States? It…
IEP Laws and IDEA Regulations, Explained: IDEA Laws for all 50 States
IEP Laws and Regulations Several years ago, I was at a fundraiser. It was for an agency that assists disabled people. So, naturally, they had…
Perfect Attendance Awards: 8 Reasons why they’re a Bad Idea.
Perfect Attendance Awards Perfect attendance awards are a terrible idea. I get it–I get why they were developed. To encourage kids with chronic absenteeism to…
What is Proprioception? IEP Strategies and Accommodations
Tell me if you’ve heard of a scenario like this. It’s the perfect example of a child who lacks proprioceptive skills. Students are in a…
5 At-Home Strategies for Speech and Language Skills, from a Special Ed Teacher.
Worried about reinforcing speech and language skills at home? Here are 5 Tips from a Special Education Teacher.
What is IDEA Child Find?
“That’s a Child Find issue.You need to report them for Child Find!” If your child has an IEP, chances are you have heard these phrases.
The White House Easter Egg Roll 2023 | What to Know Before You Go
The White House Easter Egg Roll | 2023 | What to Know Before You Go: Here’s how you get tickets, travel tips for parking and eating, and accessibility information.
20 Do’s and Don’ts for an IEP Meeting (especially if it’s tomorrow!)
If your IEP meeting is tomorrow, you don’t have much time. Read these sanity-saving tips so that you’re ready, but not overwhelmed.
10 Best Teacher Appreciation Week Gift Ideas
Need some Teacher Appreciation gifts but don’t have a lot of money? Check out this list of DIY and other inexpensive gift ideas.
Why Are School Vouchers and School Choice Bad? Lots of Reasons.
You don’t find failing public schools and charter schools in wealthy neighborhoods.
What are Temporal Words? (includes anchor chart)
Some studies show that autistic people may struggle with the perception of time. Remember, time can be abstract, so it is our responsibility to give…
5 Must Read FAQs About Transferring an IEP if you Move
Does your child’s IEP transfer from state to state? Can you remain in the same school if you move? Here’s what you need to know about transferring an IEP.
What are the 6 Principles of IDEA? (and How to Apply at every IEP Meeting)
6 Principles of Special Education I have to open this post with a shout-out to blog reader Mike T. He emailed me a link to…
Tips for Visiting The Grand Canyon with Kids (and where to stay!)
Are you thinking about visiting the Grand Canyon with the kids? The national park is a beautiful place for vacation and will likely be one…
100 Sensational Summer Bucket List Ideas for 2023
Summer doesn’t have to be complicated or expensive. Use this PDF printable summer bucket list for kids for over 100 Summer Fun Ideas for kids and teens.
Special Needs Trusts: How and When to Set One Up
SNTs are legal arrangements in which a trustee holds, manages, and distributes assets to a beneficiary. The beneficiary is the disabled person. In most situations,…
Fastnacht Day 2023 | History | What is Fasnacht Day?
Whether you spell it Fastnacht Day or Fasnacht Day, it’s a day to eat donuts! Learn about this PA Dutch Holiday on Fat Tuesday, including a kids’ word search.
Pączki Day 2023 | When is it? What is Pączki Day?
Pączki Day (Fat Tuesday in Poland) is one of my favorite holidays. And, we get to celebrate it twice! Read more about Pączki Day 2023. PDF Word Search for kids, too.
List of 25 Indoor Playgrounds in Chester County (free and fee)
List of dozens of indoor playgrounds in the Philadelphia area, including Chester county, Delaware and NJ.
4 Free Groundhog Day Activities for Kids (Printable PDFs)
These FREE Groundhog Day activities for kids will help you explain Groundhog Day and its accuracy and make your own predictions. Perfect for preschool, kindergarten,…
The Best Times to Visit Longwood Gardens (from a local and annual pass holder!)
The Christmas event gets all the fame, but any time of year is perfect. Local secrets including Restaurants near Longwood Gardens + Best Times to Visit.
Fun, Affordable Things to Do in Hershey, PA (and what to skip!)
Here are the 3 things in Hershey PA that I recommend you not do. This is a must-read for autism families or those with sensory issues!
10 Free Printable MLK Day Activities for Kids, including ‘I Have a Dream’
MLK Day Printables MLK Day can be fun, serious, educational, and thoughtful. Here are activities and projects for kids to make the day memorable, including…
What is CVI Cortical Visual Impairment?
Cortical Visual Impairment I recently attended a conference to educate myself on Cortical Visual Impairment, one of my son’s diagnoses. It was so enlightening and…
25 Free, Printable Adult Coloring Pages PDFs
I love this new trend! It’s what moms have known for generations; coloring is fun! But it made international news when some adult coloring books…
Are You Gaslighted at School or IEP Meetings? {Spoiler Alert: Probably!}
I remember the first time I was gaslighted at an IEP meeting. It probably wasn’t the first time, but it was the first time that…
8 Tips to Prevent and Get Out of Truancy Charges
I looked at the mom/client sitting next to me at truancy court and gave her hand a squeeze. She looked up and gave me a…
How to Have an Inclusive Valentine’s Day | Special Education Valentine’s Day Activities
10 tips to make your Valentine’s Day inclusive for all students, including some ideas for activities for special education.
What is FAPE? 8 Special Education Court Cases that Defined our Kids’ Rights.
FAPE This trend is really bothersome to me. I have recently had conversations with several different parents who are unfamiliar with the term FAPE or…
504 Plans, explained.
Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act is a federal law designed to protect the rights of individuals with disabilities in programs and activities that receive…
What to Know About Xfinity Essentials, the Internet Disability Discount Program.
I had the chance to attend a super cool event at Pennsylvania School for the Deaf to celebrate teh Xfinity Essentials program. Many of our…
What is Dysgraphia? Symptoms, Treatment and 17 IEP Accommodations
IEP for Dysgraphia “Dysgraphia? What’s is dysgraphia? I’ve never heard of it!” This is a scenario that has come up many times to parents in…
10 Doable New Year’s Resolutions for Moms
New Year’s Resolutions for Moms. Pffft. Every year, many Americans set them. Yet, only 8% of us keep them. Crazy, huh? I’m part of the…
Kennedy Space Center near Orlando: Review with Photos and Family Travel Tips
Kennedy Space Center The Kennedy Space Center Visitor Complex is one of Florida’s top attractions, after the Orlando theme parks. The complex is located on…
48 IEP and 504 Accommodations for Trauma or PTSD
IEP or 504 for Trauma or PTSD It’s amazing how we go through life, just doing what we do, not knowing what we don’t know….
When an IEP Team Tells a Parent, “We Don’t Do That Here.”
We don’t do that here. I got two inquiries recently that are very similar. Both parents asked for something on their child’s IEP and were…
53 Measurable IEP Goals and Objectives for Writing and Written Expression
IEP Goals for Writing Parents can certainly assist the IEP team with developing goals. One IEP area that I find parents and teachers struggle with…
The Best Swim Diaper for Adults and Older Kids (and where to buy them!)
Swim Diaper for Adults This has been a huge struggle and colossal waste of money for us. Finding an adult swim diaper for an older…