How to Not Cry at your IEP Meeting.
Is it any wonder that Moms cry at IEP Meetings? Pretend I’ve invited you to your child’s school for a meeting. And this meeting will…
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Whether you’re new to IEP meetings or looking for tips and tricks to make them more productive, this category has you covered. Stay informed and equipped with the latest resources on IEP meetings.
What to Wear to a Parent Teacher Conference or IEP Meeting.
Inside: They shouldn’t, but appearances matter. Here are tips for what to wear to a Parent Teacher conference or IEP meeting. It matters. I wish…
Can an IEP Meeting be Held without a Parent?
Inside: Can an IEP meeting be held without parents? What does IDEA say about this, and what should you do if the IEP team is…
Are You Neglecting Your Child’s Role in an IEP Meeting?
Inside: Learn the child’s role at an IEP meeting, and why they should work toward full participation and even running their IEP meeting. Should my…
What to Expect at Your IEP Meeting
Inside: Your first IEP meeting, or even your 10th IEP meeting, can be stressful and scary. Here is what to expect at an IEP meeting….
How Long Does the School Have to Respond to an IEP Meeting Request? What about an Emergency?
Inside: How long does the school have to respond to an IEP meeting request? And, what are the guidelines for an emergency IEP meeting? All…
How Long is an IEP Meeting?
Inside: How long do IEP meetings last? And what should you do if you feel your IEP meeting is too short or too long? Sharing…
Myths, Facts and Letter Templates about How to Request an IEP Meeting
Inside: Answering all your questions about how to request an IEP meeting. Includes letter templates, emergency IEP meeting information (only in California!) and who can…
Should I Bring Food or Donuts to an IEP Meeting?
Inside: Challenging that old urban legend that parents should bring donuts to IEP meetings. I understand you want to be nice. You want to be…
After the IEP Meeting: What Happens Next?
Inside: After the IEP meeting, here is what to expect. Including the after IEP meeting email, and when you should receive the final IEP. It…
IEP Meeting Agenda: Samples and Templates for a Productive Meeting
Inside: It’s best practice, but not required, to have an IEP Meeting Agenda. Here are some samples and templates for IEP Meeting Agendas for you…
The IEP Meeting Secret that Schools Don’t Want You to Know.
Inside: Learn my #1 advocacy secret to reducing IEP meeting stress. I was waiting in the lobby. Mom pulled into the parking lot, made her…
Yes, an IEP Meeting Should be Held at a Time Convenient for Parents.
Inside: Learn the IDEA wording about scheduling IEP meetings and parental participation. Whew, can we please put this issue to bed, once and for all?…
7 Things you Never Want to Hear at an IEP Meeting.
You’re sitting in your IEP meeting. Things seem to be going well. Everyone is pleasant and there’s a constructive conversation. But your gut is telling…
Can Schools Only Offer a Virtual IEP Meeting instead of In Person?
In the first quarter of 2020, we had no idea how much our lives were going to change. Not just for the next couple of…
7 Real-Life Examples of Misogyny at IEP Meetings.
I receive a surprising amount of criticism for catering to women on this blog. Or, writing about them and to them. Sure, much of it…
How to Stay Positive when you Hate Having an IEP
Inside: When you hate having an IEP it can be tough to stay positive. Here are tips for staying positive, even when dealing with unprofessional…
Free IEP Meeting Checklist (for Parents)
As an advocate, I have attended literally hundreds of IEP meetings. I know you, Moms. You’re stressed and anxious. This IEP meeting checklist is one…
How to Effectively Prepare for an IEP Meeting.
Inside: Learn how to STOP STRESSING out over IEP meetings, and be your child’s best advocate. A Special Education Advocate who has attended hundreds of…
Dear IEP Team: Don’t Call Me Mom.
Does your IEP team call you “Mom” at IEP meetings? Are you comfortable with that? Let’s explore the pros and cons to this common gesture, and ways to change it if you wish.
Who Attends an IEP meeting? Can I exclude people?
I have a friend and there are 18 school staff people at her IEP meetings. I’ve mentioned many times before how large Kevin’s IEP team…
20 Do’s and Don’ts for an IEP Meeting (especially if it’s tomorrow!)
If your IEP meeting is tomorrow, you don’t have much time. Read these sanity-saving tips so that you’re ready, but not overwhelmed.
Are You Gaslighted at School or IEP Meetings? {Spoiler Alert: Probably!}
I remember the first time I was gaslighted at an IEP meeting. It probably wasn’t the first time, but it was the first time that…
35 Common Questions about IEP Meetings, Answered by a Special Education Advocate
IEP Meeting Questions Over the past decade, I have attended hundreds of IEP meetings and met with hundreds of families. And, with the large chat…
Why IEP Parents Should Never Agree to the “Let’s just Wait and See”
I’d be willing to be my house and my car that 99% of all IEP parents have experienced the “Let’s just wait and see.” It’s…
15 Super Relatable IEP Memes for Moms | IEP Meeting Memes
Looking for that perfect meme to describe how you feel about IEPs and IEP meetings? Here you go–everything from Hey Girl to Escape Room to RBF.
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