IEP Student Strengths: 200 Child Strength Examples

Looking for IEP-ready strengths (not personality traits)? This list helps parents and teachers describe student strengths in ways that actually support services and goals.

Sometimes we forget to highlight our child’s strengths and nurture them because we are so focused on what our kids need. If you’re an IEP this can get even trickier.

Examples of student strengths written in iep-appropriate language to support services and goals
Scroll down to use the lists of examples of student strengths written in language schools use in ieps.

Types of Student Strengths

A student’s strengths can fit into different categories or domains. Your son or daughter’s strengths as a student probably overlap in these areas. Many do.

Some common types of child strengths include:

  1. Academic strengths: Examples of academic strengths are the ability to excel in specific subjects or areas of study, such as math, science, literature, or language.
  2. Creative strengths: Creative children have the ability to think outside the box and come up with innovative ideas, as well as their artistic and musical abilities.
  3. Social strengths: These include a child’s ability to communicate effectively (even if the communication is not verbal), work well in groups, and build positive relationships with peers and teachers.
  4. Emotional strengths: These include a child’s ability to self-regulate, appropriately deal with stress and adversity, and show empathy and kindness towards others.
  5. Physical strengths: These include a child’s athleticism, motor planning, coordination, and physical fitness.
  6. Leadership strengths: These include a child’s ability to inspire and motivate others, make decisions, and take initiative in appropriate situations.
  7. Executive functioning strengths: EF strengths include a child’s ability to manage their time, prioritize tasks, and stay organized.
  8. Critical thinking strengths: These include a child’s ability to analyze information, evaluate arguments, and solve complex problems.

This video explains why strengths matter in the IEP process. Below, I show examples you can actually use in an IEP.

Who this is for: Any IEP team member who is “stuck” trying to think of what to say, even though you know the kid has strengths!
Not for: Anyone looking only for academic test score language.

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Child’s Strength Examples

  1. Demonstrates outstanding memory in areas of personal interest
  2. Shows a willingness to forgive others and offer second chances
  3. Persists in working toward desired outcomes
  4. Demonstrates a strong desire for social connection and friendship
  5. Uses strong memory skills and performs best when tasks are presented using clear lists or visual flowcharts
  6. Demonstrates strong negotiation skills
  7. Is curious about the world and asks questions to learn more
  8. Demonstrates an understanding of time and can plan accordingly
  9. Uses fashion and personal style as a form of self-expression
  10. Learns best through sensory, tactile, and multi-sensory approaches
  11. Identifies efficient ways to complete tasks
  12. Demonstrates an ability to determine when work is necessary and prioritize effort
  13. Is eager to learn when consistently refocused and supported
  14. When regulated, is a kind, considerate, and pleasant student
  15. Demonstrates creative, flexible, and unconventional problem-solving skills
  16. Is generous and willing to share with others
  17. Demonstrates emotional restraint when experiencing frustration
  18. Shows empathy toward others, even when emotional expression is difficult
  19. Demonstrates the ability to learn new skills and concepts
  20. Processes information thoughtfully and responds accurately, even when responses are delayed
  21. Can verbalize feelings of upset or dysregulation
  22. May appear disengaged, but can accurately recall and explain presented information when asked
  23. When regulated, can identify triggers and situations with strong accuracy
  24. Solves math problems mentally and demonstrates strong conceptual understanding
  25. Prefers predictable routines
  26. Can adapt to changes in schedule when provided advance notice and explanation
  27. Demonstrates a strong desire to do well and please others
  28. Sets realistic and achievable personal goals
  29. Follows one-, two-, and three-step directions
  30. Responds best to clear, direct instructions
  31. Independently asks for help when needed
  32. Makes decisions when given two to five choices
  33. Interacts appropriately with peers
  34. Communicates appropriately with peers
  35. Initiates tasks and projects independently
  36. Demonstrates improved working memory skills
  37. Listens attentively without interrupting
  38. Raises hand and waits to be called on
  39. Recognizes and respects personal space
  40. Participates in two-way conversations with multiple conversational exchanges
  41. Can verbalize when being teased or bullied and respond appropriately
  42. Accepts adult assistance without resistance
  43. Demonstrates good balance and motor planning skills
  44. Learns best when movement and gross motor activity are incorporated
  45. Enjoys riding a bike, skateboard, or other self-powered equipment
  46. Demonstrates good physical health
  47. Demonstrates physical strength
  48. Shows athletic abilities
  49. Enjoys physical activity and initiates exercise independently
  50. Demonstrates good physical endurance
  51. Follows rules and instructions during games and activities
  52. Demonstrates sportsmanship as both a winner and a loser
  53. Plays a musical instrument
  54. Participates in community activities or organized sports
  55. Demonstrates safety awareness in familiar settings and responds appropriately
  56. Cares for the family pet responsibly
  57. Interacts appropriately with younger children
  58. Works effectively both independently and in group settings
  59. Persists in completing assignments and activities
  60. Maintains a personal journal or diary
  61. Understands sarcasm and enjoys humor
  62. Demonstrates a strong sense of personal responsibility
  63. Expresses opinions on topics of interest clearly and respectfully
  64. Demonstrates individuality and independent thinking
  65. Handles stress and setbacks with resilience
  66. Demonstrates strong character traits such as honesty, integrity, and fairness
  67. Plans for the future and can describe future goals
  68. Demonstrates good judgment and decision-making skills
  69. Explains ideas and concepts clearly to others
  70. Asks relevant and meaningful questions
  71. Responds well to verbal feedback
  72. Uses nonverbal communication effectively
  73. Demonstrates persuasive communication skills
  74. Demonstrates assertiveness without being overly aggressive
  75. Maintains an optimistic attitude
  76. Expresses emotions appropriately
  77. Recognizes and responds to the emotions of others
  78. Enjoys social interaction
  79. Maintains at least one close friendship
  80. Demonstrates politeness and good manners
  81. Resolves peer conflicts independently
  82. Volunteers time to help others
  83. Is friendly and approachable
  84. Shares materials and space appropriately
  85. Demonstrates appropriate personal hygiene
  86. Trusts others while demonstrating appropriate judgment
  87. Is well-liked by peers
  88. Demonstrates strong organizational skills
  89. Demonstrates effective study skills
  90. Pays close attention to detail
  91. Demonstrates strong short-term and/or long-term memory
  92. Can remain fully engaged in activities of interest
  93. Has experience traveling to other countries
  94. Demonstrates tolerance for cultural, ethnic, and racial differences
  95. Takes pride in personal cultural, ethnic, or racial background
  96. Enjoys learning about historical events
  97. Shows interest in learning about diverse cultures and traditions
  98. Enjoys reading
  99. Demonstrates strong reading comprehension skills
  100. Enjoys word puzzles
  101. Demonstrates strong writing skills in one or more genres
  102. Demonstrates strong spelling skills
  103. Uses a large vocabulary for age
  104. Enjoys audiobooks and listening to stories read aloud
  105. Engages in science exploration activities at home
  106. Enjoys logic- and number-based games and puzzles
  107. Demonstrates mechanical aptitude
  108. Enjoys building three-dimensional structures
  109. Demonstrates strong puzzle-solving skills
  110. Reads and interprets maps effectively
  111. Visualizes images clearly and describes them accurately
  112. Learns information more effectively through visual supports
  113. Demonstrates visual awareness and responds appropriately to visual stimuli
  114. Demonstrates legible handwriting
  115. Demonstrates strong hand-eye coordination
  116. Enjoys outdoor activities such as hiking or camping
  117. Uses computers, tablets, and smartphones appropriately
  118. Uses the internet responsibly for school and recreation
  119. Sets up and operates audio-visual or computer equipment
  120. Uses texting appropriately
  121. Uses social networking platforms appropriately
  122. Discusses favorite movies or television shows appropriately without dominating conversations
  123. Demonstrates intrinsic motivation to learn and seek new knowledge
  124. Performs well on tests
  125. Enjoys running

Behavioral Strengths of a Child

  1. Demonstrates resilience when faced with setbacks, disappointments, or challenges and is able to recover with a positive attitude
  2. Adapts to change and works through obstacles effectively
  3. Demonstrates empathy toward others by recognizing and responding to the feelings and needs of peers and adults
  4. Shows compassion, understanding, and kindness in social interactions
  5. Demonstrates curiosity by asking questions and seeking information
  6. Engages in exploration and inquiry that supports learning and understanding
  7. Demonstrates creativity through imagination, problem-solving, and expressive activities
  8. Thinks flexibly and generates original or unconventional solutions
  9. Demonstrates self-regulation skills, including managing emotions, impulses, and behavior
  10. Shows patience, self-control, and the ability to delay gratification when supported
  11. Demonstrates independence by initiating tasks and taking responsibility for actions
  12. Makes decisions and completes tasks with minimal adult support
  13. Demonstrates persistence when faced with challenges or difficult tasks
  14. Maintains focus and continues effort despite setbacks
  15. Works cooperatively with peers toward shared goals
  16. Communicates effectively, compromises when appropriate, and contributes as a team member
  17. Demonstrates responsibility by following rules and meeting expectations
  18. Takes ownership of actions and contributes positively to the classroom and school environment
  19. Demonstrates adaptability in response to new situations, environments, or expectations
  20. Adjusts to transitions and changes with flexibility and openness

These behavioral strengths contribute to children’s overall development and well-being, enabling them to build positive relationships, succeed academically, and thrive in various life situations.

Cognitive Skills or Strengths

In this area, I would include skills such as processing, communication, reasoning, and attention.

Language and Literacy Strengths

  1. Demonstrates effective communication skills
  2. Participates in discussions at home, school, and with peers; non-speaking students are able to follow and engage through alternative means
  3. Tells stories with a clear beginning, middle, and end
  4. Uses a broad vocabulary and demonstrates interest in learning new words
  5. Answers “who,” “what,” “when,” “where,” “why,” and “how” questions in conversation and during story discussions
  6. Demonstrates understanding of humor, including jokes, puns, and sarcasm
  7. Demonstrates phonological awareness, including rhyming skills
  8. Uses decoding strategies to sound out unfamiliar words
  9. Recognizes and reads sight words accurately
  10. Recalls details from text and retells stories after reading or listening
  11. Makes predictions based on information presented in a story
  12. Reads with appropriate expression and prosody
  13. Makes meaningful connections between reading material and personal experiences

Academic Skills or Strengths

Reading skills, writing skills, math or science skills, preferred subject area excellence, or study habits.

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  1. Strong study skills
  2. Strong analytical skills
  3. High levels of motivation
  4. Good communication skills
  5. Ability to think critically
  6. Strong problem-solving skills
  7. Quick learning ability
  8. Ability to focus and concentrate for extended periods
  9. Strong research skills
  10. Ability to work independently
  11. Strong mathematical skills
  12. Excellent note-taking abilities
  13. Strong academic curiosity
  14. Good listening skills and processing skills
  15. Ability to interpret and analyze data and information.
  16. Has a strong number sense, like knowing which is larger and which is smaller
  17. Sees and understands patterns in nature and in numbers
  18. Remembers math facts
  19. Can do mental math
  20. Uses math concepts in the real world
  21. Understands math terms used in word problems
  22. Solves puzzles or word problems

Emotional Strengths of a Child

Children can exhibit a wide range of emotional strengths, including:

  1. Demonstrates resilience by recovering from setbacks or challenging situations
  2. Demonstrates empathy by recognizing and responding to the feelings of others
  3. Maintains an optimistic outlook toward learning and future goals
  4. Demonstrates adaptability by adjusting to new situations, expectations, or changes
  5. Demonstrates courage when facing challenges or unfamiliar situations
  6. Demonstrates perseverance by continuing effort despite difficulty or obstacles
  7. Demonstrates self-awareness by recognizing personal emotions and how they affect behavior
  8. Demonstrates emotional regulation by managing and expressing emotions appropriately
  9. Demonstrates social skills that support positive relationships with peers and adults
  10. Demonstrates confidence in personal abilities and participation

Social Emotional Skill Strengths

  1. Shares materials, takes turns, and demonstrates the ability to compromise
  2. Demonstrates effort in initiating and maintaining peer relationships
  3. Listens attentively to others
  4. Demonstrates acceptance of individual differences
  5. Requests assistance when needed
  6. Accepts personal responsibility for actions and outcomes
  7. Demonstrates the ability to apologize appropriately
  8. Demonstrates an appropriate sense of humor
  9. Demonstrates sportsmanship as both a winner and a loser
  10. Demonstrates self-awareness of strengths, needs, and behaviors
  11. Demonstrates self-regulation skills, including managing emotions and behavior

Executive Functioning and Processing Strengths

Sure, lots of kids struggle in this area, but many excel. Examples of good executive functioning skills would be the ability to stay focused/on tasks, organizational skills, time management, locker and backpack organization, and planning.

  1. Demonstrates strong working memory skills, including recalling and applying previously learned information
  2. Remembers instructions, names, and prior learning experiences
  3. Demonstrates strong short-term memory, including recalling lists or multi-step directions
  4. Sustains attention to tasks for extended periods of time
  5. Demonstrates selective attention by filtering distractions and focusing on relevant tasks
  6. Demonstrates joint attention by attending to shared activities with others
  7. Demonstrates divided attention by managing more than one task when appropriate
  8. Demonstrates logical thinking by recognizing relationships and connections between ideas
  9. Demonstrates reasoning skills when working through complex or multi-step problems
  10. Demonstrates strong visual processing skills when information is presented visually
  11. Demonstrates strong auditory processing skills when information is presented verbally
  12. Demonstrates efficient processing speed when understanding and completing tasks
  13. Demonstrates critical thinking skills by considering multiple perspectives and making logical decisions
An infographic detailing a child's strengths to add to iep present levels, categorized into academic, social, executive functions, creative, emotional, physical, and critical thinking strengths.
An infographic detailing a child’s strengths to add to IEP present levels, categorized into Academic, Social, Executive Functions, Creative, Emotional, Physical, and Critical Thinking strengths.

Character Strengths in a Child

Here are some “character strengths” that I found on another site, and my commentary behind them. One thing you can always remember when evaluating a child’s strength or weaknesses, ask yourself: Is this a “can’t” do the thing, or a “won’t” do the thing. Won’t assumes willful refusal to do something. More often than not, with kids, it’s a “can’t” do the thing.

  1. Demonstrates honesty and reliability in interactions
  2. Demonstrates care and concern for others through actions, responses, or advocacy, even when emotional expression may differ from typical expectations
  3. Offers assistance to others by explaining ideas, sharing knowledge, or providing support when appropriate
  4. Demonstrates commitment to peers, trusted adults, or group activities
  5. Demonstrates sustained effort and persistence when completing tasks and navigating learning demands
  6. Demonstrates resilience when managing challenges, expectations, or barriers within the learning environment
  7. Demonstrates increasing independence in areas aligned with current skills and supports
  8. Participates in cooperative activities by engaging with peers and adults while expressing personal needs and boundaries

Strengths as a Student

IDEA is pretty clear about a student’s strengths being considered as part of IEP development. It’s even first on the list!

One of the key components of an IEP is identifying a student’s strengths. By identifying a student’s strengths, teachers and parents can use them to help the student achieve their goals.

IEP Strengths

In some sections, IDEA lists the strengths of the child as the first item. But again, we often go into IEP meetings with the mindset that the school is going to tell us “no” and we forget to address strengths or assets.

See? It’s right here. (bold mine)

(3) Development of IEP

  • In developing each child’s IEP, the IEP Team, subject to subparagraph (C), shall consider—
    • (i) the strengths of the child;
    • (ii) the concerns of the parents for enhancing the education of their child;
    • (iii) the results of the initial evaluation or most recent evaluation of the child; and
    • (iv) the academic, developmental, and functional needs of the child.

Good luck to you and your kids! Stay strong and keep growing!