If you’re having trouble defining what it is that your child is struggling with, sometimes reading over goals describing desirable behavior can help get you there.
If you are looking for Social Emotional goals, I have a list of those too. If you don’t find what you need here, you made find it there. Or, check the IEP Goal Bank.
It’s very easy to lay out expectations of what you wish a child to do. Classroom behavior goals are never going to happen if the foundation isn’t there.